I feel quite depressed tonight. I keep falling for men who do not notice me or use me. I mean, this guy from last night: We did not even exchange numbers, because at the time I saw it as a fling...but now I feel lonely: Perhaps because I again had a glimpse of what life could have been like. I want to forget about each and every loser who crossed my path...I want somebody who appreciates me...but where do I find him? Please give advice or cheer me up...Oh, no perverts please!
2007-05-20 06:00:55 · 3 answers · asked by krisi 3 in Education & Reference ➔ Words & Wordplay
I think you should love who you are. Who cares if someone doesn't notice you- too bad for them. There will always be assholes just live and learn. Do not be afraid to be hurt bc it always makes you stronger. Use your heart and your gut always and you will be happy. Don't be depressed and don't settle for less. You deserve someone awesome.. just be opened and willing to find that person.. and you cannot find someone if you don't love who you are first. Just because someone is not interested doesnt mean there is something wrong with you.. not everyone is interested in everyone.. just move on and say "hey if he doesnt want me.. why would I want him?". Just live life. Guys?-------- who needs 'em ha. Sometimes you have to go through all the a*sholes to find the good ones;)- then you will truly know .. Good Luck!
2007-05-20 06:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by Denise G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let a guy 'have a fling' with you? ? ? Did you go too far? Anything 'further' than talking and laughing is too far for the first meeting of a stranger.
You have GOT TO GET A GRIP girl. the other advice that you love yourself is GOOOOOD. You are giving your self away to losers. Sorry oto have to tell you this - the men are not to blame. YOU are the one who sets the limits and makes the choices in how far you go. . .
Meet people in places other than bars, clubs and casinos. It will only help. Suggestion: Libraries, museums, art galleries, volunteer organisations that need helpers.
2007-05-20 14:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by thisbrit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bar probably is not the best place. It sounds like you move to fast. Chemical attraction is not what you base significant relationships on . You chose to have a fling and of course you feel lonely. You did not fix the problem. Take relationships slowly and let them build and make sure you don't advertise that losers is what you are looking for
2007-05-20 13:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by TAT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋