we just broke up 2 hours ago...and i dont know what to do...she broke up with me because i had a fight with her sister and her parents is now angry..yup! youre right! TO ME!! her parents are angry TO ME!! she said it would be difficult for us to go on with our relationship because of the situation...what do i do?
more info:
before the fight with her sister...we had this SPACE thing going on...she said she nids space...just an info might help me better...
please tell me what to do..
T_T
2007-05-20 05:38:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we just broke up 2 hours ago...and i dont know what to do...she broke up with me because i had a fight with her sister and her parents is now angry..yup! youre right! TO ME!! her parents are angry TO ME!! she said it would be difficult for us to go on with our relationship because of the situation...what do i do?
more info:
before the fight with her sister...we had this SPACE thing going on...she said she nids space...just an info might help me better...
please tell me what to do..
T_T
and oh yeah! weve been together for 2 YEARS!!
2007-05-20 05:45:25 · update #1
She's probably (for whatever reasons good or bad) been trying to break up with you for a while. She just needed some help doing it.
Figure out whats really going on, and then you will know what the right decision is. Did I mention you should figure out what is REALLY going on?
2007-05-20 06:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by Lint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact she told you before the fight that she needs some space tells me she was thinking about breaking up with you and just used the fight with her sister as an excuse. You don't give an age but I'm assuming you two are young. She may just want to be free for a while and live life. It has nothing to do with you just her being young and wanting to explore. As far as helping you get over it there isn't much I can tell you but to just give it some time. Sometimes things that seem the worst now turn out to be the best thing that could happen to you. Trust me I have had some guys break up with me and I thought the world was going to end. It didn't. And if those guys didn't break up with me I wouldn't have met some of the wonderful people I know today. Thanks guys.
2007-05-28 06:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by Angela C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said before the fight she asked for space already, then there must be really something wrong with your relationship. Once the family gets involved with the problem it's hard to make things work out. Blood is thicker than water as they say. You have to accept what happened and move on. It's not the end of the world. Take it as a lesson and try to make it better the next time you get into another relationship. Good luck!
2007-05-28 04:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by pisces0307a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the point, my friend. Be realistic and honest with the most important person in your life! Yourself!! by her asking for "space", she is not sure about you, now do you need "relatives in law like them for life??? parents getting involved in teenager's fights?? change in laws immediately dude! you don't need that! when you find a decent / educated family without weirdos, you'll see the difference!! Learn from this.
2007-05-28 02:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT GET IT, WHY WOULD YOU HAVE AN ARGUMENT WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND'S SISTER???, AND ALSO YOU HAVE TO REALIZE THAT SINCE YOU HAD SUCH ARGUMENT, THE PARENTS ARE REALLY GOING TO BE UPSET WITH YOU, BECAUSE YOUR THE OUTSIDER.
YOU COULD ASK PERMISION TO VISIT THE FAMILY AND HAVE A TALK TO THE PARENTS MAYBE EXPLAIN WHY THE ARGUMENT CAME UP AND APPOLOGIZE IF NECESSARY.
WISH YOU ALL THE LUCK IN THE WORLD.
"IN LIFE THERE ARE TIMES WHEN YOU CANNT SEE THE LIGHT ... BUT ONLY DOES THAT LOVES YOU WILL SHOW YOU THE RIGHT PATH...."
2007-05-20 13:36:05 · answer #5 · answered by ââ¢Â¥*~áƦ~NYSunrise~áƦ~*ââ¢Â¥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants space, get out of her way. You are being disrespectful if you do not behave in a sensitive manner in this situation.
2007-05-27 13:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by reeksofhoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY YOU CAN FIGURE THIS ONE OUT. YOU WILL HAVE
TO DEAL WITH THE PARENTS AND HER SISTER IF YOU
STAY WITH HER. I UNDERSTAND YOU LOVE THIS GIRL
BUT SHE HONESTLY WILL TAKE HER FAMILY'S SIDE.
THAT IS JUST THE WAY IT IS. MAYBE YOU CAN BE
PERSISTENT AND IT MIGHT PAY ITSELF OFF. TALK TO
HER AND GET HER FEELINGS ON THIS ISSUE AN D
THEN TAKE IT FROM THERE. GOOD LUCK AND BEST
WISHES......................
2007-05-28 11:27:33 · answer #7 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it´s allways difficult but try to talk whit her
you and her were datting for 2 years thats to much for end up just for that talk to her and you will see that you two will end yp making again and be happy
it´s all what i wish for you
2007-05-20 12:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get drunk, slam your fist into the wall a few times, cry yourself to sleep, and tomorrow, tell yourself that it's her loss.
And don't do anything silly.
2007-05-20 12:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it like a man.
2007-05-27 21:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by Javier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋