My friends and i are always on and off, theres always a fight between one of us. So earlier in the month me and my friend got into of those type of fights and since then he has turned our whole group of friends against me. So whenever i saw them they would either make fun of me or ignore me completely. Well this past thursday i got back with my main friend that i got in a fight with and we were fine. So we've been hanging out and yesterday we all planned to sleepover my house. They came over and then left because they had to get our other friends car. Well i didnt want to go and after that i hadnt heard from them. I would call and they wouldnt pick up. And then on aim last night they messaged me and they called me a prick and that im banned again which means theyre not talking to me. I just really dont know what to do anymore.
2007-05-20 02:03:37 · 3 answers · asked by phil 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
And even though i talk to other people, these guys are my main friends so theirs nothing i can really do. I talk to my friends in other classes but its not the same.
2007-05-20 02:06:16 · update #1
Since this whole fight i dont feel the same, i feel depressed and when i come home from school i just feel tired and my appetites changed. Even though i get better grades in school now, i just feel different almost a shell of who i used to be. And the other thing is the girl i really liked and i think she like me to, tried to turn her against me so im not sure whats going on with that now. What can i do to get away from these kids and find new friends.
2007-05-20 02:11:50 · update #2
If you aren't a typical teenager, this advice ain't for you!
You're young and your body is changing. You've got raging hormones just about everywhere in your body - these are making you a bit unpredictable and anxious to prove yourself to others (particularly your friends and the opposite sex). The same can be said for ALL of your friends (who I take are around the same age as yourself). In between bouncing around and just being plain crazy, you are exploring new boundaries in your relationships and you're probably having fights about really trivial things and then you'll make up just as fast.
There's nothing that anyone can do other than listen to you and give you pointers on how you should behave in a given situation. I realise at your age, that it's not considered cool to talk these things over with your parents, if that's the case, try calling your local version of Childline (look it up) as an anoymous caller. This might allow you to settle your mind on the changes that are happening both within and around you.
As you grow you will reach a sense of balance within yourself (as will your friends) - essentially, these things will pass and you will be able to give similar advice to your own kids (if they'll let you |~)).
Stay cool and this will pass - I promise
2007-05-20 02:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by cornflake#1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These people are not your friends. Time to find some new ones. Don't let people disrespect you.
2007-05-20 02:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by It's just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it easy man
2007-05-20 02:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by bobby_singh_rai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋