Well, Im not that sociable, On weekends i dont wana go out coz i have low self estem and im scared if i see people from school and they might make fun of what i wear( even when i have fashionable clothes) ... its stopping me doing everything i want to do eg- even go to the cinema with my mate and the cinema is only about 5 minz bus ride!!!
....But then again, my ideal weekend is just going on the PC, which i enjoy lol, how can i bring my self estem back etc..?
NO NASTY COMMENTS PLEASE. I get it all the time.
2007-05-20 00:38:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
what is wrong with you kid????? u need to not let other people crontrol you, so what if they see you out somewhere...........there not gunna like hurt you or anything, take a buddy!!!! :)
Trust me, If your not a popular kid( LIKE ME) and popular people see you in clothes they DONT like, they take the mick out of you and spread rumors about ' your a tramp' ans stuff like that.
MY SCHOOL IS HORRIBLE.
2007-05-20 00:46:00 · update #1
Don't you listen to those little airheads, they are probably jealous of your intellect.
"The person who cares the least holds the most power"
Don't miss out on the fun because of fear.
Confidence comes from within. When you like yourself and you are doing the things you enjoy people will be intrigued by you.
2007-05-20 01:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by Lillly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No high school is this bad, like you had in details. I went to many private and public high schools and middle schools, and I never had a problem, nor did my 5 other siblings. Maybe it's not the clothes, but how you act, you may think you are acting shy but they could think you are stuck-up. I have fashionable clothes because I am in the fashion buisness and even I know it's not all about the clothes, and I am surrounded by Chanel, Dior, and Stella McCartney all day. You are more of a homebody, what's the big deal? Not everyone is outgoing..
2007-05-20 01:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress how you like, however you are most comfortable. Maybe get an opinion from someone you trust, as to what looks good on you. Then, go. Go out into public and stop looking at everyone else. Put your blindfolds on and your earplugs in, or whatever it takes to get you to stop caring what anybody else thinks or sees or wants from you. Stop noticing people who may or may not be noticing you. Dont keep looking at people to see if they are looking at you. Who cares! You dont need to ! Just do what you do, do what you want. Have fun. If you do these things eventually your personality will shine, and that is what people will notice. Even if you wear a sheet and a diaper, if your character stands out and you are fun loving, people will see that, and it is very infectious.
2007-05-20 00:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by firedup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are cruel in this world, and some people find that out the hard way. But what everyone on answers are saying is true, you need to worry less about what others are going to think and worry more about what you want to be happy. If you wanna go out then go out, you should be able to do what you want instead of worrying about other people picking on you, and if they do they're just jealous because they wished that they looked like you. If people need to pick on others to feel good they don't have a life, and the next time that you get treat badly because of something that your wearing tell then to get a life.
2007-05-21 03:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by *Misa Amane_gothic_beauty* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, kids will do this to you. When I was at school, I could play sport, be better than all my friends, and still told I was useless. I was told by my buddies (other guys) that I was not good looking. I was stupid enough to listen to them until girls starting telling me I was good looking. It can really mess with your mind, so don't let it.
Listen to the positive comments, the negative ones tend to be simply to be negative rather than actually be based on anything real.
As for clothes, decide what you want to wear, rather than be fashionable, then it doesn't matter what people say.
I would suggest that you just force yourself to go out. You don't have to go out all the time, but just some times. You will see and experience new things and meet some new friends.
At other times you can spend by yourself using your computer, or even hang out with some friends using the computer (personally I watch tv and use computers by myself, with my friends I go out and have fun...I like both and enjoy balance).
2007-05-20 00:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by flingebunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont worry about what people think be your own person. If you want to wear certain clothes no person has the right to judge you. Just go out have fun with your friends and dont worry about what people think. Live life to the fullest and dont waste your time worrying. Life's too short :)
2007-05-20 00:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 10:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly... I think that it is fine if you are happier in front of the PC.. why force yourself to do thing that you are not comfortable with... i do think so!! so don't worry...
But.. it could be nice once in awhile you go out with friends etc... i know it is not easy to come out of that unsociable shell... (but i think being who u are is better than trying to be something else) .. to do so.. you need to stop being so paranoid... Not everything in this world evolves around you... stop thinking that people will talk about you...
So good luck!
2007-05-20 00:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok just go out in some nice fashionable clothes with u'r friends that's all I do but I am only 13= )
2007-05-20 01:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by ♥LuV my preppyness♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and most importantly....be yourself. Take a lesson from me.....I like myself. If people don't like me for who I am....it's their loss. You have to learn to love yourself. You don't have to be a beauty either. Beauty eventually will go....the personality will always be with you. If you have a good personality, people will find out and want to be around you. Keep smiling.
2007-05-20 00:48:44 · answer #10 · answered by Sue S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋