I recently visited Seattle and noticed beautiful SWF with Asian guys and black men. Is this the new trend?

Question

I would say upwards of 50-60% of white girls were with black and Asian men. Most of the white guys were with Asian women, alone, or with male friends. I am a SWM interested in white women, but I felt very out of place. Since I am moving to Seattle for a job, I am concerned that I will be left alone as white girls I have spoken with really do prefer black and asian men. What is the secret and infatuation with interracial dating? How can a white guy who prefers white women not appear racist and not be the odd man out? Do any white guys who are not 9's and 10's still have success with SWF in this part of the country, or has it become passe? This is a serious question regarding demographic changes and preferences of women. Not haters please.

Answer 1

I had a lot in common with you, just the other way around. I grew up in a place where all the black men preferred to date white or hispanic women. It seriously began affecting my self-esteem, because I felt that I would ultimately prefer to marry a black man. However, it really was not going to happen. I had to realize that the ones who were interested in being with me, were not what I considered my preference. I re-thought my priorities, and realized that I could be perfectly happy with a man of another race. So I married him, and now we have a good life and beautiful children together.

Answer 2

Sometimes very subtle things to a person voicing something like your question and some of your explanation just jump out at someone else. You state the women you were checking out were "beautiful" yet you freely admit you are not a 9 or 10. In my humble opinion most men seem to overestimate their own appeal to women, no offense, please. So say I give you a 7, just for the sake of analogy, why do you think you are so far up the food chain that you should have a 9 or 10? I am 57 and look in my 40's. I spent a great deal of my life being a 10, slipping to 9 probably by late 30's. By the time my heart began to be right, I did not rate a man on looks. I had many choices and married a pretty boy in my youth, had one middle age crazy, then got serious about what was in a man's heart. Integrity,Godliness, loyalty,sense of humor. I have hit my stride and had my day. My husband died and I am totally devoted to my family. God has blessed me with beautful, loving people, and my horses. At 57 I am climbing on unbroke horses and I love it. My cup is full. I have a true heart and if I were looking, which I am not I would give you a 4-5 because of your need to break such a serious matter down to an accident of birth. Most men are easily fooled by smoke and mirrors[make-up, smart hair style, Wunder Bras. So sad. But good luck in Seattle. Why do you write off women of other races? Some of the most exotic looks on either sex come from mixed race people. Widen your horizons.

Answer 3

There is a mystery almost like being tempted by forbidden fruit when it comes to interracial dating. For so long people dated and married their own kind, and then somewhere down the line got hurt, bored, or whatever. I never even thought of dating outside of my race and then was introduced to a Hispanic guy. We hit it off and the sex was phenomenal. Now my soul attraction is to what I called exotic men. Tall, brown, handsome, regular penis size, and great accents. It is an absolute turn on. Don't feel left out. There is someone for everyone, and if things don't work out for you then you can always try a taste of the exotic. Best of luck to you.

Answer 4

This is really a good news. It helps in removing racism. I've always encouraged mixed race relations whether love or marriage. But not all white women prefer blacks or asians, they also prefer their kind (in my place, most ppl i see are married to the same race).

Answer 5

Someones race should not be the most important determining factor when selecting a mate. The sooner you see the light the better off you will be because it may turn out that a girl who is non white may be the perfect match for you.

Answer 6

You don't have to have any preference, but you shouldn't expect others to adhere to your preference.

Seattle is one of the most diverse areas of the country. It's natural that folks of different ethnic backgrounds would get involved.

Don't be concerned; Work on your game. If you can work the ladies, your skin color won't matter anyway.

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Answer 7

I am SWF and considered a 10. I have a curvy athletic body, thick blonde hair and green eyes. My dream is to marry a Chinese man or a black man here in Seattle. I cannot explain it - I think it is the exotic look and the larger penises. I have always heard from friends that white men have small penises and are, well, not comparable to the large black men. Chinese men are just sexy and suave! I think dating white men is BORING. My Asian friends like them, but by white girlfriends and I are dating black men. It is a status symbol. We are hot, and so are they. End of story. I hope people get over it!

Answer 8

..OH MY GOSH!!!! NO WAY!!!! I DON'T BELIEVE IT!! How dare they not segregate

Where you from Alabama?

Women here have class...

We love men PERIOD. Them there Black folk and Oriental Folk are men to didn't ya know.....

Personally I love to have a variety of shapes, colors, and sizes to chose from.

OH MY GOD~ KILL ME NOW!

Answer 9

asian men?
yay TT_^

Answer 10

simple problem to be solved by you alone one's you got matured enough to understand.
jtm