When it goes in all the way, it hurts. Like its pushing a hymen. But trust me, I've been there, broken that. So if its not there.. what else could it be hitting? It does that in every position we do it.
2007-05-19 21:53:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
no, i havent gone to the doctor. i thought i heard once it was something about hitting the edge of the cervix? or something?
2007-05-19 21:56:26 · update #1
im 'loose' enough, i get almost embaressingly wet, and it doesnt hurt anywhere except for one point inside. like where a hymen should be but deeper.
2007-05-19 21:57:20 · update #2
There can be a number of reasons, so I'll start up with bad (but unlikelly) news and move to more likelly and better news...
1. Old trauma, infection of vegina --> Go see a doc
2. Coleospasmus or dyspareunia--> painfull intercourse due to severe muscle spasm of the vegina. Usually caused by psychological reasons (stress, unfullfilling relationship, first timers in sex etc) or rarelly medical (such as infection).
Aparently you are young so, here are a few more common and in my opinion probable reasons:
1. Large penis --> ask him not to put it all in, dam it
2. Insufficient lubrication --> ask him to stimulate you more before he enters. Unless you like it that way in which case use a lubricant (water based so it doesn't affect the condom, eg K-Y)
3. Psychology --> Relax, don't do it, when you wanna go do it...
4. Virginity growin back on... --> Sometimes the hymen reassembles from its ruines. That would only happen if an adequate amount of time would exist between the first and the subsequent times of penetration. I do NOT think that is really the case... Plus, some hymens NEVER break and the doctor cuts em off during delivery (veeeeeeery rare).
What do you do do do do??
Well, do it gently, do it smoothly, don't let him force himself, try different positions (on the side may help). Lead him with your hands on his lap, showing him where to stop (we are not wisards).
Call us again with results. I believe with practice it will be OK.
Now, should you have any suspition of infection or other cause, go see your doc, it usually is nothing.
And Enjoy
2007-05-19 22:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by NightStalker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you have painful periods? I have endometriosis and i get really bad cramps and i have ben told that sex can be painful from the endometriosis even when you are not on your period. You should talk to your doctor. Sometimes when i am in certain positions it hurts when it goes all the way in and it feels like its hitting something that just causes pain but that is usually fixed by changing positions for me. You might want to look into that, ever body is different but you really should all your doctor about it.
2007-05-20 06:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by Danny's Mommy 9/10/09 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see your doctor. Have you? Pain like that during sex is not normal.
EDIT: He wouldn't be hitting your cervix all the time. Occasionally, maybe, but every time you have sex in any position? Nope.
2007-05-20 04:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be hitting nerves that are very sensitive. I would recommend going to your dr to have this looked in to because painful sex is a symptom of several possibilities vulvodynia (pain of the external genital area called the vulva). I have learned about this symptom being part of vulvodynia from ladies on lists that pertain to this topic. To learn more about vulvodynia please check out: http://www.vulvarhealth.org
2007-05-20 04:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by sokokl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do more foreplay so u are more aroused b4 peneration...or try usin a sex lub
2007-05-20 04:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you seen an ob/gyn?
2007-05-20 04:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋