Yes and No.
I regretted it at the time because it took a lot of courage to put myself out there like that, and it really hurt to not to have those feelings returned.
I don't regret it now, because I know at least I had the courage to say those words, which a lot of people don't. The ability to put yourself out there, whether you get a good or bad reaction, is an incredible quality, because that way you know you will take full advantage of every opportunity. I think I would have regretted it more, not having said it then, always wondering if my inability to open up was the reason for a failed relationship.
Open yourself up, and take that chance. If your feelings are returned, you won't have to live in self-doubt, or make the people around you think you have issues with intimacy. If they aren't returned, you know in your heart you gave it your all, and were in tune with your true feelings. You get to move on to something better. :)
2007-05-19 17:33:34
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answer #1
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answered by Belle 3
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Yes
2007-05-19 17:29:38
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answer #2
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answered by ? 7
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Yes, but it was when I was young. Now a days, no I would never regret it because I know I would mean it. Love is a strong word, I never use it unless I truly meant it.
2007-05-19 17:29:37
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answered by Dboy 1
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NOt to the man I loe now. But I regret saying it to another guy. I was stupid and he was even stupider.
2007-05-19 17:27:36
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answered by Cuppycake♥ 6
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No, I don't, because I only say it when I truly mean it. Honestly. "I love you" are very serious words to me.
Even if I don't love them anymore, I remember that I meant it at the time, and am happy they know how I felt.
2007-05-19 18:22:32
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answered by Anonymous
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Absolutely! Fortunately, after I divorced him, he moved to the other side of the country and I've never seen him since.
2007-05-19 17:28:11
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answered by Emily Dew 7
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I more regret the times I should have and didn't
2007-05-19 17:27:17
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answered by Uncle John 6
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YES, to my first and second husband and Lord help me if I ever say it to a 3rd!
2007-05-19 17:28:09
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answered by Anonymous
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DEFINITELY -- that short disaster of a marriage was MORE than enough to set my determination to REMAIN SINGLE for the REST OF MY LIFE ... because it was that much of a horror.
2007-05-19 17:28:53
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answered by sglmom 7
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No.
I regret not saying them to the person I should have... and I still should.
2007-05-19 17:27:00
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answered by Anonymous
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