He went out at 10am saying he was playing tennis, then I called him later as he wasn't home - he said he was going for a drink to watch football and would be back at 6pm - then, he switches off his phone and has gone out all night and still is not home. He has done this before and ended up cheating on me with someone! What should I do!! Please help - am I overreacting??
2007-05-19 15:28:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, it doesn't sound like you're overreacting, especially if he's cheated on you. I have bad news, girl....it sounds like he's cheating on you again. I think it's time to leave his a@@ for good!!!
2007-05-19 15:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by idog 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He IS cheating on you right now even if it isn't with another woman. He obviously dosen't value what your relationship means. Which translates into he isn't being fair to you. When you decide to leave him then he will tell you how much you mean to him and beg you not to go. It's really hard to not fall for that when you so obviously care about him but sounds like you need to move on. Maybe someday when he grows up, after you have met Mr. right he will grow up too and know he really screwed up. I don't know you but you are too good for this kind of treatment no matter what. If he cheated on you once he WILL do it again. It's not about you. Please don't blame yourself. He's a jerk.
2007-05-19 22:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by jones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is once a cheater always a cheater. If anyone I ever went out with cheated on me they'd never hear from me again much less I'd never go out with them again. Its up to you if you want to give him a chance or not but I think his chance should of been gone after the first time he cheated.
2007-05-19 22:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by hguy222222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something tells me if he cheated on you once and you're still with him it's not going to matter much what we say. You're in deep and you may have made the choice to stay stuck in this very dysfunctional relationship.
Sounds like there's only one person that really cares and that's you. Cut him loose my friend.
2007-05-19 22:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by seashell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until the morning and sit down with him and ask, "where is the respect?" If he doesnt respect you enough to leave his phone on or let you know whats going on then leave him....Or really freak him and out go get a hotel room tonight. When he comes home and your not there, maybe he will see how it feels.
2007-05-19 22:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by Big D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your garters up Gussie, it's time to either move him out or move out yourself. This clod is cheating on you and if he'd act this way before you're married God knows what he'd do after a wedding. Cut your losses, get on down the road.
2007-05-19 22:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by marks 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well to begin with you need to call off the engagement with
this dude. if he has cheated on you once i guarantee it will
happen again. and ya'll are not even married yet. what a
shame.... no you are not overreacting.... you need to let
him go and you will need to find someone who will treat
you the way you need to be treated...... i know it is hard,
but you need to move on. good luck and best wishes.......
2007-05-19 23:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is up to no good,why else would he turn off his phone
life is too short to put up with this in a relationship,find someone that will treat you right
2007-05-19 22:32:45 · answer #8 · answered by tuppenybitz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he might be cheating on you the only way you can find out is to watch his actions real close.and have your friends do some spying.
2007-05-19 22:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by dodge_ram_pickup_guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is cheating again, cut him lose before you bring more pain to yourself....
2007-05-23 02:22:54 · answer #10 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋