My ex wife lied in court and now my son is not allowed to play D&D (short for Dungeons and Dragons) He loves to play and we spent lots of quality time together doing this. I now live in a different state and am not sure if the court order still applies.
2007-05-19 14:54:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
It really depends. There is a doctrine called the Full Faith and Credit doctine, which obligates others state to honor certain legal determinations made in another state. The most common are drivers license, marriage, etc. Plus, if this was a criminal court decision, the state you now live in may require you to continue honoring that court order (similar to sex offender registration) Your best bet would be to get a copy of the court order and contact a local attorney for advice. **Disclaimer** I am not a lawyer. Any information given is not intended to be legal advice. You should always contact an attorney licensed in your state for legal advice.
2007-05-19 15:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by lawdawg_jsh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, I flat out don't believe this. I don't believe a court would do that. I'd have to actually see the wording on the court order before I buy this.
Second, can you prove she lied in court? On anything?
Third, does she have a point? Some kids get into D&D and let their homework & other stuff slide.
4th, whatever you & your son do that doesn't hurt either one of you is no one else's business, including your ex'wife's.
5th your son can play as much as he wants once he reaches 18 & becomes an adult. Teach him the responsible use of his time NOW, so it sets in, and he doesn't use up all his free time on this when he's older.
6th- if not playing D&D is the WORST your ex'wife can do to him, be very, very thankful & consider it a draw.
2007-05-19 17:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The court order still applies. The US Consitution requires that states give full faith and credit to the actions of another state. Also did you legally get permission to take your son out of state from your wife, or if she denied the state court?
2007-05-19 14:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by caffeyw 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think in common sense that what a judge orders in one state doesn't follow to another state. Because the state you moved to wouldn't know about this. Unless your ex-wife went and applied for a hearing. Moving to my knowledge means your starting over. So in order to be sure, I would call the court house where you live now and ask them how this works.
Good luck ~ I know some mother's think things are bad when it's a dad and son thing to do.. hang in there and be a good dad. :)
2007-05-19 16:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That ruling is complete nonsense! What the bloody he11 did your wife say that led the judge to make such a stupid ruling? The judge must be a complete idiot.
I'd notify the Judicial Conference in the state where this ruling was issued and ask them to look into the ethics of this decision. And I'd appeal the ruling.
Well, my suggestion is to play AD&D. It's not the same game, so, unless the judge said all versions of D&D, you could always claim you aren't playing D&D.
2007-05-19 16:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by Mama Pastafarian 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So long as the ruling has not been overturned, it should still be binding. However, this seems like quite the silly order, getting it reversed is your best bet. You'll need to check with a qualified (and fully informed as to the exact situation) lawyer as to just how likely that is and the best way to proceed. Best of luck.
2007-05-21 15:50:22 · answer #6 · answered by leons1701 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its sad that a judge has nothing better to do than offically order someone to not play a game. Is that legal? Could he have ordered your son to not play baseball? Or chess? I don't know if it can be carried over state to state or not, I think you should contact a lawyer and get that silly order overturned. If you can't afford a good one, call the aclu. Not being funny, try it.
2007-05-19 15:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by eric54_20 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Without going into too much detail...
Why the hell did the court order your son not to play D&D? That sounds just plain silly...
2007-05-19 23:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teach your child to obey the spirit of the law as well as the letter - that's a great object lesson for him. In other words, don't look for ways around the law.
If you believe the order is unfair, go back to court and ask for it to be reversed. That is the adult, American way of doing things.
2007-05-19 16:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The Court may not be able to exercise jurisdiction across state lines.
However, you ex-wife can file for a request for your state to recognize a sister-state judgment.
As I do not practice family law, I would highly advise seeking local counsel for advise; not YA.
2007-05-19 15:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by MenifeeManiac 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋