partner know i know
2007-05-19 12:09:06 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to HIM. He is in a relationship with you. She may not even know that you exist.
2007-05-19 12:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what a wonderful relationship. How long have you had this woman's #? Why would you take a woman's number if "YOU" were in a relationship with another woman? I would say just leave! Get out! I mean, both of you have no clue what a real partnership is. I would also let your "partner" know that you have a hint that she too was unfaithful. I say "she too" because, when you took this woman's number, you crossed the line. I'm sorry to read into your question like this but, hell, you wrote it out that way! What was it, a Freudian slip?
2007-05-19 12:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront her, and let her know, what I know, ringing her, will only make you more upset, if it is true. Confronting your partner, will force her to come clean one way of another. When someone is cheating, confronting them, will let them know, that you know, and you can ask, so what are you planning to do, who do you want to be with? Depending on the answer, you will know what you have to do. If the decision is they want to be with you. They need to end this other relationship in your presence, so you will be assured it is over. Truth will have to be earned, that will take some time, and healing has to take place, then you can also have time, to deciede if you can get past, this type of betrayal
things changes, when someone is unfaithful, this dishonesty is a hurting thing, but it's better to have the truth, and bring it to an head, either way. Life is too short for games of this sort. People get hurt due to this type of dishonesty. It would be wise to confront her, and see what she has to say, and get her to make her decision as to what she wants.
2007-05-19 12:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by ladymaryum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave the other woman out of it. She may not know he is in another relationship. It would depend if he (she) told her the truth. So, you need to sit down and discuss this situation with your partner. If you have the information that he (she) is seeing someone else from a good reliable source, then you need to get it out in the open. Otherwise, that woman's phone number may be for something innocent.
2007-05-19 19:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be interested in continuing this drama. This is not about whether you should call and confront this lady. This is about, your partner and you. Your partner has demonstrated lack of respect for you. Don't question it and don't reproach yourself. Believe in yourself, honor yourself, and walk away. Knowing that you have done for yourself the greatest good. Let it go, and them, with love and feel compassion if you can. Compassion? Yes, because those who harm others are harming themselves. It will come back to bite them in the ***. Besides, he probably did you a favor. Now you get to your next experience on life's road. What will you learn next?
But remember, those who love will honor and respect. There is no other way.
2007-05-19 12:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by syln 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ring her up and tell her that your be round with your husbands clothes as he is nothing but a Wan***. Then when he gets in from work or wherever, very calmly tell him your marriage is over go to the other woman. Don't forget to tell him about the affair you been having for so long and how much better the sex was and thank him for making your separation so easy for you. THEN GO IN THE BEDROOM CRY YOUR EYES OUT AND JUST THINK WHAT A USELESS PIECE OF CR*P HE IS AND THINK OF HOW MUCH TIME YOU WAISTED ON HIM. Stay strong honey your get through. XX
2007-05-19 12:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your partner about this face to face and hear what they have to say. I don't really understand why people go after the other person rather than making their partner face up to it and explain themselves. They are the ones who ultimately made the decision to cheat.
2007-05-19 12:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The other woman doesn't know you and has never made a commitment to you. Keep you self respect and place the blame where it belongs, with him. He is the one being unfaithful. Kick him to the Kerb,once a cheat always a cheat. By forgiving him you are telling him how to treat you. Dump him be strong and don't be afraid to be on your own. There are plenty of good guys out there.
2007-05-19 13:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jinty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say your partner not your boyfriend or girlfriend as the case may be... so are you in a stated-by-him committed relationship?
If so, then I'd talk to your partner, (the woman may not even know he's with someone) and I'd be saying bye bye.
If not, I'd talk to him and find out what he/she sees in your future and probably still be saying bye bye.
But that's just me.
2007-05-19 12:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by DSatt57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never deal with a woman in this even you should go straight to him and confront him. Once you know that he is cheating for a fact then you act you move and you tell him what you think and what you want to happen. Do not listen to another lie from him again.
2007-05-19 12:59:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call her and ask for the partner then you can tell him you know and to come get his crap because your done being made a fool of. Your anger should be mostly directed at him though.
2007-05-19 12:28:44 · answer #11 · answered by tpurtygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋