so this is it. my friends basically turned there back on me unless they want to do something if they are bored. i dont go to school with them anymore...but at school i have no friends. i constantly get called emo because of the way i ''suddenly'' dress... and get all this crap about how ive changed. [even you guys judge me and dont like me.] i have done nothing to my friends. but we really dont have anything in common. i would really like to say i have one friend...but i cant cause i would be lying. i know that everywhere in the world there is gonna be drama...but i would like to have a fresh start and a new go at having some friends. there is absolutely no where to make friends around here. camp...well ive been to a bunch...none really for me. no volenteering or anything got me friends...i live in a realy small town and go to a really small school. and that is basically why i want to move. there is not one person who is anything like me. so my question is how to deal for 2 more years.
2007-05-19 11:48:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Better to have no friends and get a good education. You could have many friends and get nothing. You could have tried church, maybe there are some nice people there. Dress how you like, be proud of who YOU are and watch closely, you will find some 'real' friends out there, who are happy for you and with you just because you are YOU.
2007-05-19 11:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I think we have all had friend issues. I moved a lot and had to make new friends constantly. It is tough, I feel for you! Maybe take some classes you like, cooking, crafts, etc. Then those people will have the same interests as you and have something in common to talk about. Try going into a new situation positive, if you are smiling and nice people will be attracted to talk to you. It is hard, I really know. Maybe seek out someone else you see sitting alone at school. I am sure there are other lonely people there.
2007-05-19 18:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you can't change to suit others or do anything to make people 'like' you. You are an individual and the most important thing is that you like yourself. If you do, change nothing and the loss will be that of the people around you. If you don't like who you are, change yourself, but not all at once. Small steps are best. Change your hair or makeup or clothes. Make yourself smile more. Volunteer even if you don't make friends. You have to deal because you have no choice. Life is so very unfair at times and I'm really sorry that it stinks for you right now. Children and teens are worse than anyone about ignoring, judging and disliking someone they don't really know. Make yourself irresistible to those people. Ignore THEM and you'll find they are much more interested in you! I hope this helps a tiny bit.
2007-05-19 18:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see that some of the other answers haven't been any help to you at all. so, I'm going to try to do the best that i can to answer this question.:
try going to camp again, volunteering again, try a new sport, and just being yourself. surely, there's someone out there who'd like you. ^_^
if that still doesn't work, then maybe it's because you have a problem with your attitude, people think of you as mean, you have no manners, or you're rude. so, if you do have a problem with attitude, then try to fix it. (i doubt you do though, cuz you don't seem like it.)
also, you said something about the way you dress. unfortunately, the world will judge you on how you dress, so you want to wear clothes that will make a good impression. don't wear any "exposing too much" clothes, and clothes that have swear words on them, or any thing that makes you look like you just got out of bed and that you're the laziest person in the world. just dress like yourself, but in a more proper way.
hope you'll have friends in no time! ^_^
2007-05-19 19:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean, i went through the same thing. whenever any potential friend material approaches you, be open to them. answer their questions in detail and dont send any weird vibes. two more years is nothing- your in school to learn so just focus on your grades. if you want to find friends that share your common interests, look up chat websites and talk to a few people. youd be surprised to find that your next best friend lives next door! just give things a chance :)
good luck!
2007-05-19 18:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by adoreemee_xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stop looking for Friends just like you since your so unique you know opposites can attract don't automatically exclude everyone give em a chance .. join some clubs and if ya still cant find friends just become a computer geek or a book worm and look forward to going to college
2007-05-19 18:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by silkbutterfly1973 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont wish to be called names or be profiled as something you are not then write a letter to all the people who make you feel this way and tell them politely what you want and see what happens
2007-05-19 18:51:57 · answer #7 · answered by lizziemoffles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GRIN AND BEAR IT IT GOES BY FAST AND THEN MAYBE SOME DAY YOU WILL FIND A PLACE THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY JUST DON'T PAY ATTENTION LOOK THE OTHER WAY HOLS YOUR HEAD UP HI BE THE BIGGER PERSON I KNOW IT WILL BE HARD BE JUST SAY TO YOURSELF THESE PEOPLE ARE IMMATURE AND DON'T KNOW ANY BETTER
2007-05-19 18:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your room.
2007-05-19 18:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wear normal clothes
2007-05-19 18:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋