He is in Canada and she is overseas. She will not be here for another 5 years. We figured it could be friends with benefits
2007-05-19 11:39:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, he is still married and supposed to be commited to his wife no matter what their living arrangements are. Playing around with a married man can only bring you trouble and heartache.
2007-05-19 12:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is adultery. If he cheats on her you can know right away he is a user. Sorry, but if he loved her he would be keeping his vows. And if you had any self respect you would find another guy to have a relationship with. Besides, do you really feel that he is just a friend? I bet you like him more then that and it sounds like he doesn't want a real relationship with you or he would divorce his wife and be with you.
2007-05-19 11:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by idaho gal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you mean that you can't find a single male to befriend with benefits? well, unless you want to be the talk of the town. And words will get back to his wife (that if he is really married) what would you think would happen? be smart and find yourself a male friend and you have all the benefits you want.
2007-05-19 11:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hes married i dont care how far she is & how long shes gone for....hes married & he already has a wife & its not u...& none of this friends with benefits bs.....if none of u guys where married then maybe friends with benefits but hes married sooo back off........go find u someone thats not taken & stop putn names on urself, u know how many ppl r calln u diff names right now? leave him alone dont answer his calls done call him......act like u never met him....good luck & god bless
2007-05-19 12:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by ~i love my boys~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. What? You want to waste your time on someone who would cheat on his wife? Will you be cool with him having other "friends with benefits?" That whole term is stupid to me. Like without the "benefits" you'd really be true friends...
2007-05-19 11:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never okay to date a married man. It's against God's law..but then again, if that stuff is not important to you and you lack a conscience, etc., then I guess it's good to go for you.
2007-05-19 11:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by QueenLori 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You figured wrong. Wouldn't it just be easier to date a SINGLE man? I mean, he doesn't have a wife that may find out and castrate him, and run you over.
2007-05-21 06:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by Papi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how you slice a cake, it is still a cake.
He is a married man. Regardless of where his wife is, she is still his wife. If you carry on with him you are a home-wrecker.
2007-05-19 11:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it is wrong, and you probably don't care. You know you are going to sleep with him already. Not sure why you bothered to ask the question. But remember "what goes around comes around" One day you will be the wife wondering what your husband is doing.
2007-05-19 11:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by BROWNIE 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes than when its over, you ever get merried go out state to visted a mouth your husband can do this with a lady friend .And you should not be up set about it-be hind your back cheating RIGHT.
Answer..no shouldn,t do this.
2007-05-19 11:48:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋