Both my wife and I have been wanting to experiment outside marriage.We are married for 7 years now.She has been open to it for 2 years but,i wasnt so we did not try but,now even i feel like experimenting.We both are dissatisfied with our sex lives.We have tried all soughts of things and we have a strong bonding but,its just that we want to give it a try.Should we experiment?Its very difficult to explain but its not cheating.Its just that both of us feel the need to experiment
2007-05-19 11:19:35 · 10 answers · asked by Silvio D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No.
It is cheating. Wait until you do it.
You'll see how many problems you really have.
2007-05-19 11:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are both headed toward a death wish......before you think about something like this you both need to be educated on std's and the different strains that can get through your body that no condom in the world could protect! Look up hpv and know that if you are affected with this you can become a carrier and could cause your wife to get cervical cancer. Not to mention that there is no test for a man to even know that he is affected with it ....till the wife finds out on a pap smear years latter.You both may as well get a loaded gun and play russian roulette! I would never experiment with my life or allow someone that I cared for and loved to ever take that risk. Good luck.
2007-05-19 18:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change the rules, sex outside the marr-
iage experimental or not is CHEATING. If you
have a strong bonding like you say you have then
both of you can go to counseling to up-grade your
sex life. Experimenting will get you nothing but
trouble and best to find that out before you start
experimenting.
2007-05-19 22:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to lay down some solid ground rules in regards to this.
personally, I see a lot of heartache and grief coming from this, but if you are both willing and able, then this is the next step for your relationship to head in
2007-05-19 18:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
eww If you loved each other so much this wouldn't even be an issue it must be fake.Safe sex don't work all the time and if you are willing to risk each others lives for sex then I know your not in love. You should get a divorce
2007-05-19 18:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by Addie B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you going to do if you or her either one finds someone that is good in bed and wants to stay with them?
2007-05-19 18:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by acr_lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a dildo and buy for yourself a fake psy. What is your definition of MARRIAGE SON?
2007-05-19 18:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by Dongfeng!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think you should divorce: you're obviosly sexually non-compatible with each other, so, why being together?
2007-05-19 18:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by Love_my_Cornish_Knight❤️ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
swinging is strange but what ever floats ya boat, go for it
2007-05-19 18:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by Telly-Of-War 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please! Just get a divorce marriage is not all about sex if you cannot hold it together you ever will.
2007-05-19 18:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋