Am having an urge for exploring outside marriage....i think one reason is that i am having a long distance marriage...should i go ahead
2007-05-19 10:55:27 · 15 answers · asked by Silvio D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO!!! that committing adultery. Done plz
2007-05-19 11:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by Telly-Of-War 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, Don't do that to yourself or your wife. You will both end up in a lot of pain. Why don't you just try and add some spice to your marriage? And can you do something about the long distance marriage? Now a days with cell phones and the Internet you should be able to stay in touch. Please listen to me having an affair will only hurt everyone. It won't fix anything. Usually affairs happen because they are a fantasy. You feel better with someone in an affair because you don't have any problems. Everything is rosy. But it isn't real. You can get away with your wife and leave all the problems at home. Maybe you could meet somewhere between the two of you for a rondevue(not sure that is spelled right). My husband and I have a "hot" date night every week. We have been married 33 years. You have to be creative, try new things. Keep the romance alive.
2007-05-20 01:09:07 · answer #2 · answered by a_song_from_the_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult to meet the needs of yourself and your partner when your marriage is separated by distance. It's natural to want and need physical attention but I urge you to think about what impact an affair will have on your relationship. Why not try having phone sex with your wife. Having an affair is not only immoral and hurtful thing to do but it will destroy the one thing that means the most in your relationship. It's trust. If your not happy with what your situation is like then find a way to solve it. It may take some time but consider what is most important to you. Making a relationship work is hard work but well worth it in the long run. Everyone has to compromise. I'm sure your spouse is feeling the same way so why not talk with her about it. Best of luck I hope everything works out.
2007-05-19 18:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by Orion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop and think. Figure out what you want to do about your spouse. If you've determined that things will never work out, then it's a path you might explore.
But you can' t just stick your toe in the proverbial water. You can't do an either/or decision later.
And remember, your spouse deserve some respect just for marrying her. Give it every chance to work. Distance makes it tough, but not impossible. You just have to keep in touch and enjoy the time you do spend together.
2007-05-19 18:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by wdx2bb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. You married her and vowed to be faithful. Long distance marriages can work if you truly love each other. Think of all the men and women in the armed forces that have to be away from their families. If possible get webcams and talk online as much as you can. Have phone sex and internet sex together if possible(believe me this can be intimate).
2007-05-19 18:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! If the problem with the marriage is that it's long-distance, you should do what you can to change that. Don't cheat - that hurts people, and you can never go back and erase that!!
2007-05-19 17:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by tigger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... it depends. There are certainly many people on married dating websites looking for extra marital affairs. However, I hope you will think carefully about the consequences before you start.
2007-05-21 08:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't destroy your marriage. If you are starting to feel like cheating it is time to either move closer to your wive or divorce her. Be honest with you wife, cheating is the worse thing you can do.
2007-05-19 17:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by BROWNIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out the way to go to your wife! Not just go sleeping around, would you like to start doing the same thing? GO BACK TO YOUR WIFE! YOU WILL REGRET IT IF YOU OUT OF YOUR MARRIAGE!
2007-05-19 18:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by new MAC-er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!!!
If you're unhappy in your marriage, either work on it or get out of it. Don't break your marriage vows and cheat on your wife just because you're horny.
2007-05-19 17:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋