im so sick of this.?

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of people. of school. of ''friends.'' of my town. i want to move. i NEED to move.
mom says we cant move for two years. but its days like this that make me want to move so bad. someone is having a party a few houses down and didnt invite me. but all my friends were invited. my ''best friend'' made plans with me to go to the movies. she didnt call me today and didnt answer the phone when i called her. school called. apparently i did something wrong again. im so sick of it. but the question is how do i suck it up and get over the fact im stuck here until 10th grade.

oh gee thanks. apparently im an emo brat who doest care about starving children in africa.
well honestly i cant defend being a brat or emo cause thats your opinion...
but if you really wanna know last year my class[of 15 people] raised $2004 in about a month.

oh gee thanks. apparently im an emo brat who doest care about starving children in africa.
well honestly i cant defend being a brat or emo cause thats your opinion...
but if you really wanna know last year my class[of 15 people] raised $2004 in about a month for kids in africa. have you done anything? or anything like thaT? i bet you havent. so you shut up and dont say that again. im a very caring person. i ALSO raise money weekly for many other charites.

Answer 1

Roll with the punches kid.

Answer 2

Ryan, allI can say, it won't help much, is that almost everyone of us have gone through pretty much the same as you are now. Being a young teen is probably the hardest age of your life. Girls at that age 12-14, can be truly cruel and
sometimes for no reason. This week you're in, next week you're out, repeatedly. Each of those girls down at the party will experience some of the same as you. And maybe the friend who was supposed to go to the movie HAD to go somewhere or maybe she's grounded. If they all were your friends before I think they will be again. Try to put on a fake smile and not have an attitude because that will only p*ss them off and it will get worse. Time will pass quicker than you think and you will be out of there but that's not the entire answer. You need to learn from your years of life where you are now so that your future won't hold the same for you. I know you're sad, but take a couple slow, deep breaths (whenever you want to scream)and remind yourself life will get better. ALSO, stop dicking around in school and that problem will be over, too. Good luck, Hun.
Oh, one more thing. There will always be people like the ones
who answered you first. Make yourself better than that.

Answer 3

well the thing is if your stuck where your at for the next two years, the best thing you can do is, as typical as it sounds, try and be optimistic. if you let it pull you down, its going to be a lot harder than it really is. TRUST me. im in the same exact position. ive been hit with nothing but negative crap for the past 6 months. First my gma passed away, then my boyfriend for half a year broke up with me, the SAME day my cat got killed, then i kinda drifted from my friends because i was so down...and things just kept getting worse. and bad things are still happening....but it could be so much worse. for example..i still love my ex, and i read something that made me believe he found someone new, but i misunderstood and he's not interested in anyone afterall. See how much worse it could be? I was so relieved that it wasnt real and i was actually happy for my situation. I hope u really think about wats going on and instead of giving up, just keep going. forget regret. live today. and just remember that if today goes down the drain, there is always tomorrow.
when you go to school, talk to your 'best friend' and tell her your situation. if she really is your best friend, then she will listen. if not, then you found your problem.
if u need n e more help, lemme kno.
good luck!

Answer 4

I remember days like these. You feel like your friends are ignoring you and you're bored out of your mind. I was in the same situation my junior year. The best i can tell you is try to meet new people. When you start college in the future you will meet people of all ages and you won't know every person there. No better time to stop being shy....Perhaps they don't invite you to parties because they feel you're not interested. Ask them if you can come with your friend, or have your friend ask for you. If they don't want you there your friends should be a good enough friend to hang out with you instead. Maybe your best friend didn't call you because she is busy doing something, or may be out with her family. When you get older you will realize friends rarely call you back, you will be lucky to even get to say hey to them once a week on the phone between the two of u guys' schedules. My suggestion is take up a hobby. Listen to music, try a new workout, etc. My aunt taught me how to make hemp jewelry and ive even sold some...plus you can make them to match all of your clothes....

Answer 5

Think about it. What's really making this seem so bad? Is it your situation or your view point that is making this year seem more unbearable? If you can find something that you enjoy ,like a sport or hobby, then you will be happier and it will show in the way you talk and act. People will notice you and that will get you friends and maybe even a few admirers. Just hang in there and good luck. Also if you need someone to talk to, you can get in touch with me at any time.

Answer 6

That really blows. I'm really sorry to hear that. But be happy that you at least get to move! I can't wait to leave and be on my own, meet people I'm actually interested in talking to.


I have a lot of good friends, but i'm in some weird phase where all I wanna do is be home, talk to nobody on the phone, I don't feel like leaving the house unless I go to the movies with my mom or something and when I'm home, I wish someone would invite me someplace. I wonder about myself sometimes...

Answer 7

maybe you need to talk to someone, bottling it up is never good, maybe you should talk to your mum, mums are good for this sort of thing i mean just talking can take a lot of the tension off because you feel like its out in the open and you don't have hide your anger. i mean its understandable i'd be annoyed if that happened, but there again are you sure that it won't happen anywhere else on the planet? because I think that all things are the same. but moving away from your problems is that the answer, really? maybe you should draw up a to do list things you would like to sort things out and work on them one by one, keeping things objective is helpful and you can see where you are.

all my best

Answer 8

welcome to my life!
ive been stuck in this town since 2nd grade - full of snobs and people that just make me so mad because they get everything they want w/o doing anything. I have to work my butt off so i can get by... I dream of getting into Boston University (far from where i live) and getting some kind of medical degree and NEVER ever looking back on this pathetic town of snobs. -this town seriously makes me scared of having kids b/c in this society i dnt want my kids growing up as selfish greedy little girls or full of themselves boys. i cant stand it here.
im still a Freshman so i have 3 more years of this hell.

Good luck though....

Answer 9

So throw your own party. Get more involed in your community.
When you do things for others it really makes you feel better.
which is worst, to spend the next two years working and getting involed as much as possible, or wallowing in your depression and misery? personally, I'd chose the first one.

Answer 10

Your "best friend"? I wouldn't call her that if she dumps going to the movies with you to go to a party knowing that you wasn't invited as well(if that is why she is avoiding you). Moving won't solve your problems you run into problems anywhere you go.

Answer 11

Welcome to the CLUB! i had the SAME problems with my SO called BEST FRIEND who would get mad at me for weeks to blow me off.. Their not true friend AND another My Grandma Said dont hate the TOWN it didnt do anything to you (hate the ppl) SO i got so FID up with school and my So called Bestfriend treating me like crap and everyone else I went HOME schooled ! AND I LOVE IT( p.s ABOUT to graduate BEFORE THEM haha Who is laughin NOW)