Hi, well my boyfriend and I have been going out for 8 months now, and we promised each other that we will never watch any porn by ourselves. I checked his computer recently and found out that he was, I asked him about it and he accepted it. I also have suspiscion to believe that he might also be cheating on me based on the websites he has been on, and his behavior recently. When I asked him about it he started to cry and deny it. I dont know what I should do, its not really about him watching porn...it's more about how I really dont trust him anymore with promises. What should i do?
2007-05-19 10:26:31 · 8 answers · asked by sagin123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't know...If he was really crying, you might have gone overboard...But if he wasn't really crying tears, he might be trying to pull one over on you...(lying)...
2007-05-19 10:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be in that same situation at one time. It sucked! All you can do is trust your man til you have a reason not to. Accusing him only hurts your relationship instead of helping it:( As for him watching porn....men and boys do that. You will Never find one that wont. Or atleast want to. That is human nature. It took me over 4 yrs. to figure that out. Just tell him all you want is the truth. And that you feel he is hiding something from you. Be serious, but dont act mad. Or he will hide stuff. I'm sure all will be fine!
2007-05-19 10:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go into thinking he's cheating try to think positive if the signs come up more and more then try to catch him in a lie. If that doesnt work do what he's doing to you then he might confess, then you both can talk about the situation.
2007-05-19 10:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by Brianna S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel girl let me tell you me may have some confusing going on for example some men have problems to not watch porn and couldnt resist or hes just acting and playing you i say leave him
2007-05-19 10:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont make anymore promise to begin with if you know that you will be setting urself up to be let down
2007-05-22 03:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by CheyenneMc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop dating him you don't wanna get hurt
2007-05-19 11:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do yall look at porn when u have each other. was he looking at naked girls though?
2007-05-19 10:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by krazy chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL THEN COMFRONT HIM AGAIN AND SEE IF HE GETS PISSED OR WAT HE DOES AND THEN HIS REACTION WILL TELL YOU IF HE IS CHEATING OR NOT
2007-05-19 10:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by monique c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋