During my gradutation, I ran into a few of the members of the organization I ALMOST joined. I messed aroung with the guy who happens to ahve a sister in the sorority I almost joined and his best friend was also trying to be a member as well, and she was sort of my friend. It was wierd because none of them spoke or not even a congratulations. And I know before that had always spoke. I mean one evern ignored me.What was wierd though was the fact that as I was walking to the line to have my name called.I noticed that one of the sorority members husband was staring at me the entire time, and I don not even know him, it was the weirdest thing...I know have alot to be happy about.i have my degree, and family and everything, but I am sort of curious as to how come noone speaks to anymore is it because I din't continue the process, or the fact that I messed around with this guy that they knew, I mean I really don't know?All I know is I feel bad.
2007-05-19 08:57:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
And the thing is..is that I know I was wrong about one thing, that one thing was the fact that after me and the guy had sex a few times, he started to act funny and not call me like he used to and stuff, and he even told me that he just wanted to be friends because i was too whiny, I got mad and played on his phone a little bit, and he called me stalkerish because of it, but he invited me to his house where he had just moved too, and we slept together again, and so he threatned to tell the sorority member my business if i contacted him again, but then when I seen him not oo long ago, he was trying to talk to me again.So I text messaged him this morning, and congratulated him on graduating, and he was like thinks, and he asked me what I was sorry for, because i told him that i was sorry for all the drama I cause and stuff, and that was it, he didn't say anything after that
2007-05-19 09:06:48 · update #1
Sweetheart, don't waste your time. After college, is just like after highschool. All the things that mattered while you were there, don't matter anymore now that you're in the real world. Don't associate yourself with women that act like children. Find yourself some good friends who want what's best for you and accept you and all the mistakes you've made and will make in the future. Sorority's are some girls way to bully you around and make you feel beneath them and that's what it sounds like to me. Congrats on your degree! :D
2007-05-19 09:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thinkits because u messed around with a boy that they know so they dont feel very good about u, go to them and just apologise and try and sort things out
2007-05-19 16:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by zoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit worrying about nothing. Take your degree and get a job and be happy.
2007-05-19 16:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋