Should I ask my boyfriend to marry me if he hasnt asked after four years?

Answer 1

I can't see why not. My daughter-in-law asked my son to marry her. Proposed and everything. He said yes.

Answer 2

I would say after four years and he hasn't popped the question I would dump the sorry excuse for a man. Really you have poured yourself into this relationship and he is just letting the time slide by while you wait for him to propose. I think you have to ask yourself this question would you want the guy to propose if it has been four yrs and he has done nothing?.

If the guy hasn't propsed it either means he doesn't want to marry you your just his sex toy. Or he just doesn't believe in marriage do you not thinkn it wise to find out the answer before you waste anymore of your life?.

God Bless and Good Luck.

Answer 3

Ask if you want, but after four years he may not want to marry you. He may just be along for the ride until the right one comes along. Why sell the car he has before he's sure he has access to a new one.

Answer 4

Sounds like he is coming to his senses and realizes you are both too young to get married and have not really known each other long enough for that kind of relationship. If you have only been dating for a year and already are living together it sounds like you rushed things. After living together, he seems to have realized he needs to get to know you better before making that kind of committment, or he realizes you have certain qualities he didn't notice before that he has to decide if he wants to live with. Of course, you should be evaluating this relationship too, in the same way.

Answer 5

Have you even discuss marriage? Do you know what he want for the future? If he haven't even brought up the subject then he isn't ready. Don't propose to him, that's what he's suppose to do. Just tell him you need to talk and explain to him your feelings of being ready to take the next step and get his point of view, have an honest and open talk about marriage, children, finances, future goals. You don't want to drag him down the aisle, you want him to walk down it willingly. If he's not ready yet, but says that it's definitely in the future, give him sometime, don't hassle him about it, that will only push him away. It will be more special when he ask you, then you will truly know that he means it, not because he's being forced or pressured, but because you are the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with. Goodluck

Answer 6

Why not? What's the difference? Just because you are a girl? If you want to marry him ask him. Do you think it is always easy for man to ask and risk being rejected? Give it a go!

Answer 7

No. Four years is a very long time. If he hasn't asked by now, he doesn't want to marry.

Answer 8

Yes, if you want to marry him. Have you two talked about any other future plans? Like buying a house or having children? Maybe you should talk about the future together before you pop the question. It's only a tradition that the man proposes to the woman. It doesn't always happen that way.

Answer 9

In this day and age...men are not marrying. They have no reason to. The women are eagerly willing to give them sex without marriage first....so stop complaining....you opened this can of worms.
If you really want to test his love....leave. Don't give him any sex....see if that makes him want to marry you.

I do not sleep with men....at all. They are willing and want that in a women....you should try it...they will always treat you good then. Make him WIN you.

Answer 10

If you're sleeping together, he has no reason to ask you.

FOUR years and what have you two accomplished thus far? What are your goals? Do you want kids? Does he?

WHY do you want to get married? Are you ready for "FOREVER"?

Answer 11

if yur boyfriend hasnt asked after 4 years then there is defintly a problem. hes either gay or just dont want to marry you; plain and simple. should you ask??? hell no!!!!! he should ask will you marry him not the other way around. but like i said there is a PROBLEM with him!