On June 1st, 2006, my bff told me that she was glad that God brought us together and that she loved me. This year, I told her that I didn't want to be friends anymore bcuz of what one of my other bffs did. We used to talk a lot last year (me and my current bff, the one that told me she loved me), but now we only talk once or twice every two to three months. I love this friend, but I want things to go back to how they were last year. Plz help me. PS: I don't know what she meant by telling me that she loved me, but I love her as a friend and as a person. That is it. Oh, and we're both girls. If that helps.
2007-05-19 08:42:24 · 22 answers · asked by Darcie C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you are not a jerk, that is sometimes the only way the other person can move on. try to tell her that you miss her company and want things to go back to how they were last year. good luck
2007-05-19 08:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by Fizzy Fizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should find out what she means by loving you, so you know what it is she is talking about. You may want to be her friend and she may be talking lover. After there is a breakup in a friendship it's going to be hard for things to go back the way they were , because of being hurt. If you are sincere about getting her back then start by communicating with her more and let her know how you feel.
2007-05-19 16:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not a jerk at all. I am not sure how old you are, but this is just part of life. Friends come and friends go, it's the ones that stick around that matter! Everything in life happens for a reason, maybe this was meant to be. Everything will sort out for you. It's part of learning, and maturing through life. Hang in there, and best of luck to you.
2007-05-19 15:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Vanessa Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the wrong word to use. You don't "love" this person. So don't be so dramatic about the nature of the relationship. When you tell someone you don't want to be friends any longer, I mean when you actually say that to them, it's not really possible to go backwards and retrieve what once was.
2007-05-19 15:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get how you could stop being friends with a person because of what someone else did.. Just talk to her more and you'll probably become friends again as long as you both get along.
2007-05-19 15:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by Devin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell my bff I love them all the time:-?? I think you should get things back to normal and stop worrying about stuff..
2007-05-19 15:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by onutza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best friends are the most important ppl and i am happy to say that i have one and cant imagine life w/o her so u should maybe try to make to plans with her and slip back into the swing of the way things were!
good luck
2007-05-19 15:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by rawr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if had alot of trust issues and hurt i wouldnt even try to work it out inless u feel it will change and improve and ur not a jerk a person can only tolerate and put up so much
2007-05-24 03:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all the term "bff" is just plain gay. Secondly, this drama stuff is dumb. Learn to be friends with them both.
2007-05-19 15:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by Rick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That fact that you guys are girls puts a smile on my face>but anyways you should show her you love her by doing something special and telling her again how much she means to you it allways works. (Player.In a.Management.Profesion.)
2007-05-19 15:51:42 · answer #10 · answered by prieto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋