I have had to tell him 3 times already.
2007-05-19 08:00:22 · 14 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He talks about what my body looks like !
2007-05-19 08:18:13 · update #1
Plus, other stuff.
2007-05-19 08:18:43 · update #2
"Listen carefully. If you don't stop talking about our sex life, there won't be anything to talk about." Let him figure that one out.
A grown man should not have to brag to his friends and bosses [!!!] about his sex life. It reflects a lack of self esteem.
Tell him it makes him look less confident, and insecure about his sexuality.
P.S. I worked many night shifts where I heard all kinds of stuff I never wanted to know about my co-workers. The ones who bragged the most, did it the least, and usually got dumped.
2007-05-19 08:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is going around bragging about it, he has little respect for you as a person. It would seem that you are only a booty-call for him.
I don't condone sex outside of marriage because for so many it results in a physical-based relationship in which the mind and spirit of a person is forgotten. Usually, the girls. Guys are happy to have sex and, often, the girls will give it up in order to keep the guy (I know this is not the case for 100% of dating couples).
The result is the guy disrespecting his girl. If he has no respect for her, this will eventually strain and terminate the relationship. She gave herself to him, exposed herself and now he tells the world about it. Some guys grow out of it, many never do.
He is showing you a great lack of respect. If you have told him 3 times already, it may be time for him to be out of your life. You don't deserve such disrespect. Now, how do you think his coworkers look at you when they see you? You may as well go in exposed. Nope - his disrespect is clear and he should not have anything to do with you anymore.
No one deserves the ignorance of disrespect.
2007-05-19 08:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by TroothBTold 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm...that is named ''kiss and tell.'' that is totally inner maximum and could be reported devoid of one. i don't think of he has any admire for you, that is why he won't end once you have instructed him that it makes you sense uncomfortable. How old is he? A grown guy would not do this, what you do in the privateness of your man or woman house is your corporation and not all of us elses. He sounds extremely immature to me. I do comprehend which you desire him, yet you have alot to artwork out besides to speak approximately. in keeping with risk he's taking good thing about the actuality which you're based on him? you will could have a severe communicate with him and take a inspect to confirm what you are going to do if he has no intentions of combating. truthfully however honey, it feels desire to me that your boyfriend would not admire you and would not care approximately your thoughts. How long are you keen to submit together with his disgusting habit? that is something to truly think of approximately. that is not a healthful relationship, he's making not purely a fool of you yet himself besides. You deserve lots extra desirable.
2016-10-05 09:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are more sensitive than girls when girls discuss sex lives to their friends. Especially if you talk about a man's body.
While i don't recommend this, you could pretend and tell him how you told people that his thingy is 'not too long' and 'not too short'. It probably wont solve your problem, or worsen it. But it will give him a taste of what you feel.
2007-05-19 13:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by achillespecies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex with him. Don't talk about it just stop altogether. Ultimatum-tell him if he doesn't stop talking about your sex life, then there won't be a sex life to talk about. Believe me that will work. If it doesn't, he needs to mature, and you need to find a new boyfriend that can keep his big trap shut and respects you.
2007-05-19 08:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by MzzandtheChuchuBees 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your bf is talking about your sex life to impress his friends with his 'conquests' and make himself look like a 'real' man. "Wow, man, like it lasted 14 hours and then we did it again"
Real men don't discuss or boast about the personal intimate lives of their companions. He is being childish, thoughless, and rather stupid.
Dump the little boy and find a real man.
2007-05-19 08:13:14 · answer #6 · answered by fiddlesticks9 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really communication is all you have. You could treaten him but i find that does not really work. Perhaps you could reward him if he keeps hims mouth shut. Ask him why he does it and why it matters to him to share, Let him know you are willing to talk to him about your sex life of he feels the need.
2007-05-19 08:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet his " friends" and bosses think he is a real jerk to be dissing you like that. They probably enjoy hearing the details about your body and how you use it , but inside they are thinking, " What a skanky guy."
I can't imagine what you see in a guy who disrespects you like that.
2007-05-19 08:10:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. sorry but i have a good laugh on this one. what a guy, your bf. is he the type that kiss and tell? if you don't feel comfortable about it you need to tell him again and give an ultimatum. three times is enough for him to get the message. do something drastic. good luck!
2007-05-19 08:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by Lola 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you REALLY want to know about his bosses and friends. maybe friends alittle bit but bosses, comeon. sex is fun to most guys, why talk about stuff that we dislike like bosses.
2007-05-19 09:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋