I have had long hair for 4 years and I'm sick of it. My bf doesn't want me cutting it shorter than my shoulders. Everyone I have ever dated has had this hang up.
2007-05-19 06:04:54 · 27 answers · asked by Your Mom 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I love a woman with short hair, not Britney shaved her head short, but above the shoulders.
The first time my daughter had her hair cut short, it was a shock ! She looked like an entirely different person, but it was cute !
If you get at least ten inches cut off of your hair, you should tell them that you want to donate it to Locks Of Love. It is an organization that will use the hair to make wigs for cancer patients. My daughter did that with hers. If they don't know what that is, ask them to check into it before they cut it.
2007-05-19 06:12:38 · answer #1 · answered by Eveready 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your boyfriend is attractive to you because you have beautiful long hair and that is what attracted you to him and he does not want to lose it. I can see your point too. I like dating women that have short hair or in a permanent curl style because it shows their face more.Tell him you need a change with your hair and see how he reacts before doing it. I cannot believe he would mind if he knows how happy it will make you feel inside and if you are happy and attractive then he will be happy even more. This is how I would react in this scenario but we are all different.
2007-05-19 06:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by Dave aka Spider Monkey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well long hair is seen as more feminine and short hair is seen as more masculine. In other words some people feel that girls should have long hair and boys should have short hair. That's just how society usually views things. However I have seen some pretty women with short hair not too short of course but short hair. I usually like long hair but not too long but I have dated pretty women with short hair. Besides is he is only with you because of your hair then that says more about him then it does about you. If he really loves you he wouldn't make a big issue out of this situation. If he does make a big deal out of it then leave him and find somebody who will like you as is.
2007-05-19 06:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why they would mind, my bf's haven't had problems with me having shorter hair.
I'll have a guess but, each of them has only known you with long hair, maybe they think it would suit you better then short hair so they haven't wanted you to cut it too short, maybe.
2007-05-19 06:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I prefer hair that is shoulder length or longer, As well as since that men who like females are more often then not right, they like long hair because that looks more feminine, as most males have short hair.
2017-01-21 06:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women look good with long hair...Short hair makes them look less feminine, more boyish or manish...just my opinion in general...Lets just say most men would pick oh, say...Pamela Anderson every time over someone like Hillary Clinton...One is hot, even though she's had plastic surgery...and the other just looks like a b*tch...not to mention a butch...
2007-05-19 06:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i know what you mean, its actually pretty true for most guys. I used to have really long hair, but i needed a change and in the spur of the moment, I cut it short...like boy short. It was kind of like Twiggy...long bangs but short in the back. I heard it all from "girls arent supposed to have short hair" to "girls with short hair look like dykes"....all of it...all from guys. Most guys like girls to be feminine and short hair just doesnt qualify as feminine.
2007-05-19 06:14:28 · answer #7 · answered by Satellite Eyes 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a caveman thing dear. I just recently heard my boyfriend admit that he will still be here when my hair gets cut. Do you like the Avatar? That is what my hair will look like once I have this 9 inches of color treated dead stuff whacked off. Trust me, if you cut it and he leaves the proper thing to say to him is Good Riddance.
2007-05-19 06:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by NakasEvilTwin 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you are over generalizing about what men like and don't like. I've dated many women with short hair, and found them sexy and beautiful. Maybe the problem is with the type of guys you've been seeing?
2007-05-19 06:11:29 · answer #9 · answered by Feathery 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I like long hair on a woman too. BUT to be truthful I'd honestly like to be involved with a woman with really short hair if not outright bald.
2007-05-19 06:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋