A friend of mine,a man,asked me to try to have sex with him.On the one hand I'm curious but on the other hand I'm really scared.Should I give it a try or it's better to follow my instinct?
2007-05-19 05:00:21 · 26 answers · asked by Brenno 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Do only what you are comfortable with, if you have to ask for advice, then I would say you are not ready, Ask yourself if this will affect your friendship? and what are the consequences of doing this? if there are any. And will A innocent person be hurt by this. Hope this helps.
2007-05-19 05:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by Leeanne 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you are curious but scared
Maybe you want to try it but just not with him?
I agree with everyone else really follow your instinct it rarely leads you astray
Thats why we have it
To your own self be true
2007-05-19 17:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by nevergrowup 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are gay then at some point you are going to want to express your sexuality fully with a physical act. However is he the right one for you? How do you feel about him and how will you feel about yourself afterwards? Would you be happier if he were a she? Are you questioning whether you are gay or bi or hetero? There must be some question in your mind behind your doubt about having sex with this man, is it him or you that you have doubts about?
2007-05-19 12:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by purplepeace59 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Follow instinct.
2007-05-19 12:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by sakira_starwolf 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you of legal age?
I wouldn't want to do anthing that made me feel pressured into doing it?
If you do decide to sleep with your friend ( how long you been friends?), the relationship might go somewhere that might spoil the friendship you have already, or not.
Personally I wouldn't sleep with a friend as I wouldn't like to risk losing that friendship with them, and if my friend started acting offish towards me since saying No, then I would find out that they really wasn't a true friend.
At the end of the day it's your choice.
Good Luck
2007-05-19 12:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
It is natural to want to explore your sexuality. And in fact if you feel the curiosity maybe you need to check it out. That way you can learn firsthand what you prefer.
2007-05-19 12:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by quikzip7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are curious, you should go with it. Just wrap yourself and tell him to before any penetration. You never know what people have. It wont hurt anything. If you don't like it, you don't have to do it again.
2007-05-19 12:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by dudeboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would follow your instinct. things like this can spoil a good frendship and whats more important to you? be strong
2007-05-19 16:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Curiosity vs Fear
Toss a coin and find out
2007-05-19 16:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your first instinct is probably the best way to go.
2007-05-19 12:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by penelopejanepitstop 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋