Or does love always have to be a choice with them ?
2007-05-19 03:50:51 · 11 answers · asked by Joseph B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are many couples who truly 100% no holds barred love each other.
2007-05-19 03:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a strange question. Of course people truly love each other.. and love changes with time. The love I feel for my husband today is so different to the way I felt when we were first married. That's the hormones and adrenaline love in the beginning then it becomes something deeper and more caring love. The best love has to be mutual respect and genuine care and concern for your partners best interest. Putting there feelings and thoughts before your own. That's LOVE
2007-05-19 03:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by Deborah C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Real love is not a choice at all. You can't help it and that is why it feels the way it does. Once you love someone for real you don't have a choice but to always love them.
2007-05-19 03:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by jhardinmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe at one time they love each other, but either the love burns away or they found some one who can give them more. I believe love is a choice, you can either except some one's love or completely deny it.
2007-05-19 03:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
1 Corinthians 13: 4-8,13
2007-05-20 09:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by setfree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once heard it said you don't fall out of love. You fall out of commitment.
People hop in the sack and think that's love. It's not. When you are willing to give 100% of yourself for the other's sake, that's love, and it doesn't involve the bedroom. Being willing to sacrifice your own desires and needs for the other is love. Alot of today's society is selfish, and hence the high divorce rate. (Don't get me wrong - divorce is warranted in some cases, like adultery or failure to provide.) In alot of cases of divorced folks, love was never even there.
Marriage is work -- for BOTH husband and wife.
2007-05-19 04:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by LilyBelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make a choice to love your spouse every day! Sure it's easier to get pissed when they do something wrong, but that's a choice too. ;)
I choose to ignore stupid stuff. I choose to love, respect, honor, and help my husband every single day.
Love is a choice.
2007-05-19 05:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always kind of wanted to be able to choose who to love or not to love, when to keep loving and when to stop loving. But it's just not a choice. I've met ONE person in my life who claims he can choose to stop loving, but I don't believe it for a second. You can try to deny it to yourself, but i won't happen.
2007-05-19 04:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by NoSurrender 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite rare....but.....Yes there are couples fell in real love........if you want to see ur best bet is to ......go to a couple who is in their 50's, 60's or more than that.
You might not feel....all this untill in u r in love.......but get real love.....u must offer real love there is no other way
2007-05-19 04:42:58 · answer #9 · answered by nice.boy25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st you need to qualify what is love !
2007-05-19 03:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by aunt_webby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋