Why is life just sooo hard at the moment ?

Answer 1

did you just come from looking at some porno?

Answer 2

Is it so hard?

When we feel it is hard perhaps it is just *harder* than before but not really hard! Consider if you were a peasant in India, no food etc... Then you have right to say life is hard. But living in an apartment, with your basic needs satisfied and luxury items (like your PC) then you cant really say it is hard just bloody annoying!

The key is patience. These times come and go. When it is really hard you will be out of these basics.

Answer 3

Seldom we let the moment present be free from the burdens of the moments passed, or from the trepidations roused by our dir expectations of the moments to come. The moment present is the only moment in our life. The moment present never comes into being from some unknown none-existent regions of our future imagined, and neither it passes into oblivions we have in our mind as the time past, as the past is in fact us as gathered so far behind the in the sequences of events in our lives.

The sanctity of the moment present is often corrupted either by the things of the past, or by the tidings of the times future desperately imagined.

But the fact is that the moment present is all we have and this one moment never goes out of our life, as it never come from nowhere ever. It is us who keep changing, and defining or redefining all that we always have.

I remember there once was a jolly English gentleman in British India who used to hop across a pool of shallow but muddy water infested with giant Indian crocodiles basking under Indian Sun. The spectators would hold their breaths upon the sight of such a feet of courage and gallantry, but the method involved was really very simple.
If you observe crocodiles when properly fed carefully you will find that they grow very lethargic, however menacing they may appear but they try to avoid any threatening confrontation with the outside world. The trick then is that you just stay at the back of each crocodile only for a fraction of a second and hop on to the next until you land on the other end of the pool.

This can also be an analogy for the way we tend to pass our time: we never feel at home with our sense of time passing, or not passing for that matter. We often do not live fully in the moment present. For if a situation has become unpleasant we expect time to pass quickly; and if there is something to the best of our liking, we try to hold on to each moment that we feel passing; we want happy times to stand still.

And thus we always try to overpowered and overburdened the moment of our life. The fact is that all the times past and the time future are but in the time present, and in this brief instance of time we enact the drama of our life: we live; we dream; and we carve out our destiny for all the times in our being. If we learn to know what the moment present we learn the truth.

And sometimes we do end up making the moment of our life into a hungry monster that we cannot help but stand upon. We then try so hard to get rid of it; we invent, in our efforts of escape for the reality of our life all sorts of escape routs: the time future, the time past, and ignorance in the moment present.

Answer 4

Whatever's making life hard, deal with it and move on it's the only way.

Watch a good movie like Life Of Brian, guarantee you'll smile and your day will seem better. Hey, it's a sunny day....

Answer 5

While "Hard" is relative, hopefully you or someone close to you are not in physical danger... if so please seek some help. Sometimes we have to take immediate action to immediate threats.
When the source of difficulty is persistent, your perception and processing of the hardship can change.
Take a deep breath and the "moment" will pass.

Remember, it's not what happens to us that makes us who we are, it's how we respond to events. Sometimes a hardship is an opportunity for change.

Answer 6

A quote by Henry Fonda:
Whether you believe you can, or whether you believe you can't, you're absolutely right.

Richard Bach says:
Bad things are not the worst thing that can happen to us. Nothing is the worst thing that can happen to us.

Roy Goodman:
Remember, happiness is a way to travel, not a destination.

Confucius:
Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.

And finally, the Irish Philosophy:
There are only two things to worry about,
either you are well or you are sick.
If you are well, then there is nothing to worry about.
If you are sick, there are two things to worry about.
Either you will get well or you will die.
If you get well, there is nothing to worry about.
If you die, there are two things to worry about.
Either you will go to Heaven or Hell.
If you go to Heaven, there is nothing to worry about.
If you go to Hell, you'll be so busy shaking hands with your friends, you won't have time to worry!

Gist of it all is time marches on, the world turns, it'll all work out in the end. You'll see.

Answer 7

Cool! Life is hard at the moment for u. Don't worry, It will go away from u because Life is a circle. Your good time is coming. Hold it tight and do not let it go away......

Answer 8

That's just the ups and downs of everyday life, we all get these feelings, try to look forward to something in the future.

Answer 9

If you mean in general;
just because we are able to know much more. We hear and see more misery than back in the old days -TV -Internet. Misery that always has been there. (think about Vikings, Christening, territorial wars,... plague, medieval times, ... it wasn't much nicer) But now it is visible for those who want to see it.

Answer 10

These times come, and then they go. This too shall pass. In the meantime, slow down, take extra good care of yourself, and be extra loving to others. You'll get through it, hang in there.

Answer 11

That's the way it goes, no-one ever notices when it's easy.