This girl I work with is sleeping with her bestfriend's husband and use to talk about it all the time. Then last week her best friend started working here, I know the affiar is still going on. I am not friends with either of them. Should I say anything?
2007-05-19 03:37:54 · 10 answers · asked by Mega G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. Be on the safe side and be purely professional. You are under no morale or legal obligation discuss the personal arrangements that are likely to come back to haunt you if disclosed (the girl you are sleeping with is sleeping with her best friend's husband).
2007-05-19 03:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are not friends with either one, you should probably stay out of it. You could potentially do more harm than good, especially to the morale of your work place.
If this is really continuing, the "best " friend will likely find out on her own.
On the other hand, if more of your co-workers know or find out about this, a little peer pressure might work on the vixen and help her to see the error of her ways.
2007-05-19 10:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by albodad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, live and let live. It can be like watching the soaps at work. Both women now work with you, is this right? It can be interesting, keep your eyes on your work. Your reactions could trigger one or both of them to get hurt. Don't get judgmental, as the wife has the children, etc., stay out of this. They are together for a reason, on a path you should stay off. If they exchange the husband, let us know, as it looks as if it is leading this way.
2007-05-19 10:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by Marissa Di 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. I don't know why this girl would tell someone who she's not even friends with that she's having an affair, but it's not your problem. If she tries to talk to you about it again, tell her you don't want to hear about it and walk away.
2007-05-19 10:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you even care if you are not friends with either of them.If you are not a pastor or religious fanatic, just get some business of your own.
2007-05-19 12:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by thementalpatient2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh...that would be a hard decision. But i think i would say something cuz you what goes around, comes around and if you dont tell her, something might happen to you like that one of these days and so if you do tell her, then if she hears something bout you, im sure she will let you in on it.
2007-05-19 10:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by TCCgurl2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a detailed letter and leave it for her. You can tell her without putting yourself in the middle of the drama.
2007-05-19 10:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the old saying, not only what comes around goes around. but, never leave the one you love for the one you like because, the one you like may leave you for the one they love.
2007-05-19 10:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't friend with either one i would stay out of it, she will find out soon enough anyway.
2007-05-19 10:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep out of it.
2007-05-19 10:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋