2007-05-19 03:33:02 · 14 answers · asked by Samantha C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It would be very clear if he came home with any of the following: lipstick anywhere, clothes ripped, stains, perfume, missing memory, etc...
Unfortunately it is hard sometimes to see if someone is a cheater. You hate to question them, you hate to sneak around to "prove" something, you hate to seem territorial in protecting "what is yours".
Just be observant. Usually the sign is there, a discrepancy in stories, missing time, bad excuses, change in how they interact with you.
2007-05-19 03:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by ciberpunk1 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people say if you are thinking it then you already know but to be honest this isn't true. You can try looking into his cell phone if he doesn't answer your calls, you can try to show up at different times on different days, you can even be brave and come right out and ask him. The worst part is, if he is cheating he will delete the phone numbers off his phone, he will always be at work when he is supposed to because he will know you will check. You can even ask him but will he really give you the honest answer, probably not. To be honest, if there is something missing in your relationship or if you don't see him enough, or if things just happen to change because you are comfortable in the relationship, then you will automatically suspect he is cheating. Don't let yourself get consumed by trying to find out if he is. It will make you go mad. To be honest, if he is it will come out in the end one way or another. Let it go for now or in the end you will be the one losing their marbles.
2007-05-19 11:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by Just Want To B Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your intuition. It's usually always right. Check his cell phone for phone calls and check his texts, but don't do it in front of him other-wise he will start erasing them before you get a chance to see them. Also they have programs for your computer that you can download that records every page he visits, and every keystroke he makes without him knowing, so you can see if he is "chatting" with anyone on-line, or has an alternative e-mail address you don't know about. But really, trust your instinct.
2007-05-19 10:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok ..Try these steps
1 First of all u need to ask yourself if he is honest with you as much as he used to be earlier.
2 If he is cheating on you then he is bound to make some mistakes ..look out for those mistakes ..they could be anything ..may be his credit card was charged for a restaurant bill or anything like that
3 Make up a story of your own about how someone in your office who used to cheat on her wife is being sued by his wife for 50 Grands or something and say that serves him right. ask what he thinks about cheaters and look into his eyes and see if he looks down..as if he is guilty ??
4 Call him in the office once in a while and if he is surprised then ask him were u expecting someone else to call u right now ? see if he fumbles while talking to u ..or even tries to cut u short and hung up on u.
5 Keep a track of his daily schedule if something sounds very irregular to you then ask him why is it so and look into his eyes when ask him that question
The only best way as i see it would be find out by looking in his eyes for an answer with astute vision..as if ur trying to find your answer in his eyes ..if he drops his face down or wont keep his eyes in contact with yours ( like he is ashamed ) ..then u should have your answer as ..yes he is cheating..
I would be very sorry if your hubby drops his face ..Good luck with your married Life
Thanks
2007-05-19 10:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Mike R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless you actually catch him in the act, you don't know. If you need the answer to a question like this, you have picked the wrong man to marry. Next time don't make the same mistake.
2007-05-19 10:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are numerous signs.
a lot of late work at the office but no overtime money to support it.
when he comes home, he immediately takes a shower.
A sudden need to upgrade his wardrobe.
A strong interest in his hygiene, especially skin conditioners, cologne and hair care.
Lots of short, furtive calls that are explained off.
A new diet and exercise regimin
2007-05-19 10:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would know because my husband does everything on a schedule.
He would have to deviate from the schedule to have someone on the side.
2007-05-19 10:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you assume then its about 30% chance and if you have evidence on him or strange behavior 75% to 100%.
2007-05-19 10:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by and1player2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this question, you probably already know. If you REALLY want to know...hire a private detective.
2007-05-19 10:38:09 · answer #9 · answered by thirsty mind 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First clue would be to ask the question on here.
2007-05-19 10:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋