How do you stop your sex drive?

Question

I want to be with a lower sex drive so I stop pulling the pud and don't look at porn but it gets worse and try not to fantasise. But the damned urge will not go away, it gets worse. I try and think on other things but its always there in the back of my head threatening to come to the front. Is it possible to stop it?

Answer 1

Why would you want to stop it...you're not hurting anyone are you?

Answer 2

On that circumstance it's simple to give easy answers writing to stop masturbation or on the contrary to go on with no problem! As usually the right advice is in the middle because sex is good while addiction is bad! I don't know your age but supposing you're very young, then it's normal for sex to become a life motive at that age. But sex should be as any other physiologic human need (eating, sleeping, pissing, etc.) and not an obsession or the main thing of the life!
First you must leave porn with no hesitation because it increases lust and excitation. You haven't to think about others things only, but having some true occupation, better if not at home. Even some walk can help. Note that you haven't to stop masturbation or to limit it greatly... it even could be worse then! Ok?

Answer 3

I think having very different sex drives is a common problem in couples. The fact that you think you need medication to control yours may mean your drive is higher than a lot of others. But seek help, it could be a lot of things: Medical, emotional, or maybe you just need help from a professional to understand that having different sex drives isn't necessarily a reflection of how much someone loves you. It's hard to separate that sometimes. But most importantly learning to compromise for the other person is a huge step. Learning to accept a "no" without getting hurt, or saying "yes", because you know how much it means to the other person, is a step in the right direction, but most of us need help to get there.

Answer 4

A good thing to do is stop looking at so much erotic material. The sexdrive wont stop, but if u find other things to do with ur hands and ur mind it might help some-also putting that sexual eergy into another activity would help.

Answer 5

Try working out or reading a book when you get the "urge"

How old are you? If you are a teenager then its pretty normal but if you are late 20's or more you may want to see a doctor

Answer 6

Lowering yoyur sex drive is easy. You can go one of two routes.

1 - You can die. They might have trouble closing the coffin, but that will be your last woody.

2 - You can get old. You still want to do it, but your body does not cooperate as well.

Answer 7

how old are you? my son is 22 and he was scared he was addicted to sex, the normal young male thinks about sex every 13 seconds so if your between 15 to 33 you are normal.But..if you are older I am sure they have something to reduce the sex drive. Besides masturbation is wonderful..if you can't love yourself how can you love others??

Answer 8

This is because you spend most of your time ,thinking about sex.Have some other activity like reading,music and have a lot of friends.Say good bye to porno.You will be fine.

Answer 9

Certian prescription pain killers will diminish your sex drive as will prescription medications for depression.

Answer 10

good answer spirit.....
I would suggest you the same but i have a different opinion as well....watch less porns and fantasize a lil less......try meditation and try speak out nonsense things when you fantasize about sex.....it will help you reduce your sexdrive.

Answer 11

To stop sex drive, put it in "PARK!"
Why do you want to try and stop something that is perfectly normal?