My husband and I were good friends with a couple, and they broke up. We continued to be friends to both of them, but mainly stayed in contact with the man, who recently got married. We went to the wedding. Do I say anything to the girl about the wedding? She doesn't know I went, but she knew when the wedding was.
2007-05-19 03:08:18 · 8 answers · asked by casey308 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd tell her. She probably knows you were still good friends with both of them. It is better to be honest. Just dont go into detail with her unless she asks.
2007-05-19 03:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by reneem1954_2000 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would not bring it up. She knows he is married now.
Keep the relationships separate. If she does ask, just tell her out of respect for HER, you would not feel comfortable discussing the wedding and details because she use to date him.
2007-05-19 03:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the better question is why do you need to hide the fact that you went to this wedding ? I think maybe you need to redefine your friendship with her . good luck .
2007-05-19 03:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't matter either way. If you tell her, she might think you were trying to dig up the past or rub it in her face. If you don't tell her and she finds out, she might be mad at you for not telling her....
Ugh!! Not sure how you can win either way on this one... If you choose not to tell her and she finds out, I would just tell her that you didn't think it was important. Don't lie though...
2007-05-19 03:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by ciberpunk1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No keep it to yourself. Ask him if you can tell her at the wedding.
2007-05-19 11:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by themyth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel guilty about this...you aren't choosing a side and if either asks you to they are being selfish...trust me.
2007-05-19 03:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she got owned
2007-05-19 03:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by MDTOHM 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
so what if you went,, why do you need to hide it,, is she psyco or something,your an adult you can dowhat you want
2007-05-19 03:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋