Before the baby came, we would have sex all the time, now it's rare. I don't feel like he's attracted to me anymore. He sneaks to watch adult movies or pictures online any chance he gets. Even a day after we just had sex. Is it me or does he have a porn addiction? Is it normal for a married man to want to watch adult movies when he could have sex whenever he wanted?
2007-05-19 01:21:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like a normal man to me girl. ^-^
2007-05-19 01:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by Alisa 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋
NO. I think a man may be curious to check out porn. My husband may watch 1-3 times a year. It doesn't bother me and I could care less. And, usually when he's watching it I have directed him to it, because I have something I am doing and it's just easier! ............If your husband does not already have a porn addiction, it sounds like he may be developing one. For example: I used to have a boyfriend. He liked to "stroke" it all the time. I mean a lot! Even if we had sex that very day. It got on my nerves. I wouldn't have minded if it was saving me time, but it wasn't. He had let it become and addiction for him. It had nothing to do with me, it was him. We're not together anymore.
Talk to someone about it. My church addresses porn a couple times a year.
Good luck to you and your family!
2007-05-19 01:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by iamratchet 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
replaced into he laid off? Is he depressed? Does he consume protein, does he get exterior? he will no that is not appropriate. You 2 don't have a collectively agreed on plan that addresses decrease cost rates, jobs, young babies, ect? i'm specific that is not in the plan. Does he purely desire some weeks of a wreck? Or is this a clean ordinary? You deserve solutions..
2016-10-05 08:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are probably more sensitive to it now. I went through the same thing. I guess I just didn't notice it before. Plus, honestly after a chld comes along sex isn't as frequent. Be honest with him and tell him it bothers you....see what you can do to "help" the situation, and maybe even schedule sex times. Soon, you'll be back into the old habit of having sex a lot and he won't resort to porn as often. As far a guy a guy answer goes....I think they all do it, it's just a matter of how often we catch them. LOL...I hope this helps hun!
Sabrina
2007-05-19 01:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm sure you are hurt by his insensitive behavior. Lots of men have a porn problem. If he is choosing this over flesh and blood, and living in a fantasy world, then yes, it is a serious issue. What men don't realize is that porn is not real. So, what I would do is tell him you have issues with his insensitive behavior and if he is unwilling to change, then, get out. When a guy does not care about your feelings, its time to stand up for yourself, and deal with it. And, don't back down if it is something you don't want to have in your life. Good luck.
2007-05-19 01:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by Rogue 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
normal is a pretty arbitrary term because everybody is different. But What raises a red flag is that he can have sex whenever he wants but would rather watch porn.I Don't think anybody on yahoo answers can answer this for you you need to talk to your husband.
2007-05-19 01:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you have every right to be pissed. anytime he wants it? boy you must be pretty awesome with a new baby and all. the only acceptable porn in a married and esp. children environment is with you if you looked at it together to heighten arousel great, all the time on his own no way babes.
2007-05-19 01:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by pa625 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seems to me that you both are missing the boat. He is developing an addiction and you are not putting out as much as before...Both of you have needs and situations change (baby arriving). He is fulfilling his need while your too busy with the lil' one. Maybe a good sitdown chat will open both of you guys eyes. worth a shot, eh?
2007-05-19 01:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why don't you watch with him? There are many adult flicks made these days that appeal to both men and women.
"Erotique" from Digital Playground is really well done, in my opinion. And nothing beats the ones starring and produced by you two.
2007-05-19 04:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by LisaFlorida 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds pretty normal to me.. mine used to do this until I decided to act out some of the things he was looking at..... well, let's just say things are a little busier in the bedroom (or wherever !!) than the lounge room and computer room....!! (wink!)
2007-05-19 01:38:56 · answer #10 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its not normal. Its called addiction.
Just because society says watching porn is normal, doesnt make it so.
2007-05-19 01:40:58 · answer #11 · answered by nan6872 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋