you come across a gorgious couple, mean while be friends. Would you like to swing your partnner(husband or lover). My friend is beautiful and her husband is really hot and my husband too. To be honest me and my friend want to swing our hubbies. Is it ok?!!!!
2007-05-19 00:25:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Me too hot ;;;;No worries we r in 5 year married relationship, have 2 kids and love eachother verymuch. Just wanted to spice up as they are our family friends.
2007-05-19 00:41:13 · update #1
remember, once you cross that line you can never go back. your relationship will, on some level, never be the same again. If you are happy, why risk this kind of behavior? Find ways that just the two of you can spice up your sex life. You are playing with fire.
2007-05-19 03:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, it's NOT ok. You both basically want to throw your wedding vows out the window and say I don't care about my vows. You made vows before GOD, saying that you would forsake ALL OTHERS!!!! Keeping yourselves only to your husbands, meaning NOT having sex with ANYONE other than your husband's, not swapping husbands for sex.
Your opening a DANGEROUS can of worms if you even try that. Your opening yourself up for jealousy, resent, and possible cheating say if your husband likes your friend better than you. And if that happens, you can kiss your friendship good bye, along with your marriage.
All swinging is, is an over glorified excuse to cheat, or consentual cheating, that's ALL it is.
2007-05-19 07:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss this openly with your husband. Spicing it up this way can have serious consequences. You need to lay down some ground rules and stick by them no matter what. Look the issue up on the Internet. Good luck. Try not to get upset by all the judgmental answers. But consider this carefully together.
2007-05-19 07:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The Bible says....be faithful and true to each other. Even if you're not religious, I have often wondered....what happens if you or your spouse starts to be too attracted to one of the other people? Is it worth losing what you have with your spouse? Personally, if I'm in love with someone, I can't imagine wanting to be with someone else.
2007-05-19 07:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by Sue S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It'd be funny as hell if your husband left you for good for your hot friend. Don't blame him if he did, you instigated it.
2007-05-19 07:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
One thing is clear, You don't love
your Husband. What you have is lust......,
Lust can be satiated by anybody,
Love can be satiated by loved one only.
2007-05-19 07:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by James D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why ask for trouble??
2007-05-19 10:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by Travis McGee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it!!! it's a blast... but be prepared for all outcomes from this...
2007-05-19 07:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by prop4u 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
really sounds awful and disgusting... yuk!!
2007-05-19 07:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by . 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋