I'm so hurt?

Question

Just found out by logging into his computer account that my stupid pig of a boyfriend is intending to or is cheating on me this very minute.
I don't really know what to do, feel so hurt. I know I should break up with him, but I'm 7 and a half months pregnant and we have just brought a house together. I also have another son, and can't leave him as I have no where to go and still really love him, although I want to cut his dick off and shove it up his ****.

Answer 1

well he probably knows that the baby is not really his, so i think u deserve it!!

Answer 2

You are not alone, men cheating is not a new concept. Most men will cheat at one time or another but they will lie about it. I know that does not make you feel any better. Cheating has nothing to do with you at all or your womanhood. Cheating is a choice that men make all on their own. Watch how your BF acts when he comes home to you. He will probably be all lovey dovey to you. Men don't put love and sex together like women do so that is how they can cheat and leave the emotions out of it. If a woman cheats, she is has emotionally checked out of her old relationship. The rest is up to you in how you continue with the relationship. He will probably do it again. You would need to make him feel like he will lose you and the baby in order to make him stop and respect you. I know you mention that you are between a rock and a hard place. There are ways out and help if you want to get out. Good luck with the baby.

Answer 3

Oh dear, how hurt you must be, firstly I would really make sure that what you have found out, is for real, or just some boyish flirting. To do this, check out what it is, even if it means going to where he is meeting whoever, and by all means introduce yourself at the time of meeting, I sure this will put an end to whatever may be going on. Then, if he has been unfaithful to you, particularly while you are pregnant, I would definately get out of all obligations you have with him and show him the door. I believe that any man who cheats on the woman carrying his child, firstly is a mongrel, not fit to have anyone in his life, and secondly, you dont want to be with this mongrel for the rest of your life, believe me, he will do it again and again. Cheating becomes a way of life and it gets easier and easier for them because they become better liars each time, so my dear, you dont want to waste your love on a 'pig' like that, I am sure you have someone that will help you and if not, there are government departments out there, who will help you, but you must make the decision for you, your son and your unborn child. Dont lower yourself by staying with this mongrel, he will use you, and even the thought of what disease he might bring home to you..... God Bless and Good Luck

Answer 4

wow you sure got your self in a mess. Once a cheat always a cheat. You will never trust him again. Take your time and plan on leaving him. You brought the house together hope your name is on it to tell him to get out .but wait till you have the baby then make some kind of move. If you think things will get better they won't..

Answer 5

Don't say anything yet. Wait for him to meet the other woman and catch him in t he act. Show up where ever he is but don't act crazy, be smooth and go home. He will be rushing home to try to get you to stay. Leave him. If he's cheating, he doesn't love you enough. You can do better, move on!!!!!!!

Answer 6

My first question is why were you logging onto his computer account? That in itself is a form of cheating - reading his email is spying. Has he behaved in a way before that merits this distrust and spying? (If so, this combination doesn't really add up to a healthy relationship). But you love him and despite the dick fantasies, want to work it out. "Fess up to reading his email, and confront him with what you read. Tell him (calmly, if possible) how you feel and ask how you can work together to put this behind you and regain each others' trust. For the sake of your relationship, and your growing family.

Answer 7

Well, first of all, you really had no right to log onto his computer. Second, when he does get home, you need to sit him down and tell him you know-that you truly know--no need for denials...see where that leads you, but DO NOT say I can't leave you now or I would because you've lost any advantage you possible have at this point...he knows you can't leave, no matter what, and he then knows he can play whatever games he wants and you won't leave him, becasue you can't.

Answer 8

sure your hurt, but you need to cool off before you say anything you will regert later, after you have calmed down some sit the pig down and talk to him, dont yell or accuse him of anything just ask it may be something else, just dont make things worse for you and your child

Answer 9

pack his stuff and have it waiting on him at the front door when he comes strollin in acting like nothing has happened. u poor girl! dont take any bull from him cause he is sure gonna pull some out,and once a cheater always a cheater. good luck

Answer 10

You're in a major bind. Confront him and try to get him to stop. You are in such a bad situation.

Answer 11

Dam girl, that really sucks. I wish I could help you. E-mail me if you want to talk.