People out there..Im one person whos really week in believing myself...Im frustrated and tired because my friends even my best friends take advantage of this because im a easy person to take advanage of. I always give up when there is arguments...i feel like its my fault even when its not..My friends have the power to make me feel guilty and this gives the chance to take control of me...Im really ******* tired. I want to make them stop taking control of me..i want to stand up for myself..And believe inmyself ..Is there any good website or links ...not like where i have to sign with credit card to order..Any site with guidlines and advise would be very helpful that can make me feel more confident..boost up my Low-selfesteem, Solve my mental health problems.
2007-05-19 00:13:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Toughen up and stop caring so much about what other people think. Most people aren't even really aware of what they are doing to themselves, to others, and to our world. Find something that inspires you, and work hard for it. Respect yourself, show compassion for others and you'll feel good about yourself from the inside out. I promise.
2007-05-19 00:24:08 · answer #1 · answered by delectable_intellectual 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking to cure yourself from your insecurities, it really is impossible, because old habits just creep back.
What you need to do is change your whole way of thinking and unfortunately that is impossible to do on your own considering you have been the way you are for so long. What you need is a good therapist...an outsider that can help you look at things from a different perspective and also someone with no attachments to you. This all takes time and money and if its important enough to you to change, then, pick up a second paying job to pay for it. Also, how people treat you is partly your fault...you are allowing it. Sounds to me like you are gravitating toward the wrong type of people. Always want better for yourself, even when choosing friendships. Always be an honest person and look for ways to better yourself.
Good luck.
2007-05-19 00:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by Rogue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading this my behaviour came before me . I have given my class X EXAM. I am also like you. My friends treat same as your friends treat you. The same advise i would like to give you that my mother gave me is that you should never thing that you are alone in this world, you should face the circumstances with a smile. Don't allow them to take your weak points.
2007-05-19 00:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by Star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you aren't. You can be the most powerful around...You are a great person, you're one of a kind...don't let negative thoughts enter your mind! Read this, please:
http://www.svots.edu/Faculty/Albert-Rossi/Articles/Saying-the-Jesus-Prayer.html
The most important thing is to know yourself and do the best with your life...nowadays real friends are rare, so rare! Take very good care of your soul!
Have great thoughts!
2007-05-19 00:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need any web sites at all ***** grow some balls tell the world to get fuked along with your so called friends, go out and have some fun and control yourself
2007-05-19 00:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need one on one help, not a web site.
2007-05-19 00:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let other ppl take advantage of u. gather all ur guts and defend urself, i know u can do it( ur no lesser than them) and if ur friends take advantage of u then take it from me"they are not ur true and loyal friends".
2007-05-19 00:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by CLOVER07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey gurl!!
Um why don`t you IM me. here`s my sn .. this_do0ork_mareee@yahoo.com or xospicyladyxo if you have Aim. I`ll help you out. We`ll talk on there later when I sign on. okay?
2007-05-19 00:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by mareee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a psychologist
2007-05-19 00:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by romel b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋