We've been best friends for 4 years now but i've noticed a lot of things and sometimes it leads me to confusion. She's always there for me and i'm always there for her too. The things that annoys me is when she acts diffrent sometimes and acts nice again. I dont like it when shes with boys, she acts diffrent and then she ignores me. I feel like a dick...I do want to tell her but afraid that it might lead to argument. Why is she doing this???? And sometimes she really makes me feel sick because shes really slutty when shes around boys and she acts really cheap. Im more like a girl with typical tight attitude and a girl with self-respect. But shes so ..loose and she also plays boys. How should i tell her whats shes doing its not right??
2007-05-19 00:07:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The part where she ignores you when around others, That is wrong. It happens. I've had so called friends like that. If you dislike her as a person then I don't see how she can be your best friend. How she chooses to be in her personal life. I'm referring to her acting slutty. Is her business.
2007-05-19 00:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she likes to mess around with guys is no reflection on you. She is obviously a bit insecure and likes the attention of men to reassure herself that she is attractive and fun. You shouldnt judge her for being this way, I have friends who are exactly the same and it is not for you to say whether it is right or wrong, unless she is actually hurting herself by doing it.
If she is there for you when you need her, then that is all that matters. If you have a laugh together then life and let live. Be a true friend, so if things do go wrong be there to pick up the pieces and dont take the moral 'I told you so' high ground. She will resent you thinking she is slutty, I can guarantee that. Keep that information to yourself.
2007-05-19 07:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by Gemma T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you first of all clear misunderstandings between you and your friend. Also tell her that she is not doing right. Don't act rude with her. Always be calm and quiet . And you ask her a question that are you really my best friend? Give her some greetings and roses . I think so she will definately understands you. All the best
2007-05-19 07:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by Star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do have a talk with your friend immediately and tell her wat is all in your mind about her and seek an explanation. If you find her,that she is just ignoring you wantedly, opt out of her friendship. There are lots of people to share their world with you.
2007-05-19 07:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by Ultimate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows what she's doing. Youre just too nice for her.
2007-05-19 07:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋