mother inlaw unfairly hates me?

Question

what should i do, she thinks i'm spoiled and to good for everything because i wont drink tap water, reason i wont drink it is because of all the reports on our citys water system. so i drink bottled water. she doesnt like me because i mentioned our room bieng small. reason i said that was because i was trying to figure out how to fit all of our stuff from our appartment into the new bedroom which was bigger then the current room we are in. she doesnt like me because i want a unused crib and carseat for our soon to come baby. she doesnt like me because she thinks i purposely got pregnant. which i didnt. it takes two to tango. yet she blames me. she doesnt like me because i got my husband to move out of her house.

how do i get her to stop being such a b*tch?

what should i say to her. i havent said one word to her about any of this. but she's stressing my husband out because of this. and he's horrible at defending himself and me.

Answer 1

i think you tell her!!! just explain everything you typed... (my girls parents hate me lol... and i really dont care... she loves me and puts me first sooo...ha ha ha)

Answer 2

Hi, Katie C. Your mother-in-law doesn't hate you. She just doesn't understand how you feel. Try to talk it all out with her. There's no harm in trying. She'll either understand you or not. If she still doesn't understand you, try a different tack. Like having someone else to explain to her other than you or your husband. All is well that ends well, you know.

Answer 3

Move out from the house of your mother in-law. Live alone with your wife in a distant place where your mother in law could not just go to interfer with your life.
jtm

Answer 4

After 30 years of being married to her son, my motherinlaw is still hateful to me. That's why we live a loooooong way from her, and visit very rarely. She will never change, and it's fairly unrealistic to expect your husband to help, cos he loves her.