2007-05-17 20:19:05 · 14 answers · asked by toni n 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its a full time job! and while you may not agree with what i am going to say it all works together.
romance leads to the bedroom, it doesn't always begin there.
it begins long before then.
its helping her do dishes, offering to vacuum.
its her offering to help wash the car, or do the yard work.
its him bringing home a flower, or a fresh piece of fruit.
its her being at the door waiting to say hello when he gets in.
[or vice versa.]
its having a clean home, its having dinner ready for him.
its his opening doors for her when they go out.
its her letting him read the paper first.
it letting her have the last piece of chocolate, and letting him have the last piece of pie.
its getting up at night to bring him/her a drink of juice when they are sick.
its making your partner feel special, making sure they know they are number one in your life.
its so many little details that we tend to forget and then we wonder where the romance has gone. its still there, we just have let it get buried under all the daily spit that happens.
it take energy but the rewards are great!
romance leads to the bedroom, it doesn't always begin there!
i know, we just celebrated our 40th wedding anniversary, and we still manage to get to the bedroom pretty regularly! lol
good luck
2007-05-23 19:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by the quiet one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, it's honestly difficult. But, my problems with keeping romance exciting occur whenever I'm thinking too hard about the relationship. If you just let things happen, and let yourself be spontaneous and live in the moment, instead of dwell on past problems, you'll have much more success in your relationship.
I'm only 19 and I've been with the same guy since I was 13. He's my best friend and we do many different things to keep our romance alive. Whether it's sleeping out under the stars, making love as often as possible, cooking with eachother, telling eachother our deepest desires in life, we find ways to keep our love strong.
Good luck with your relationship! It sounds like you're panicking a bit to keep it alive, but just relax and love will find a way. <3
Email me if you need someone to talk for further ideas.
2007-05-17 20:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
By listening to yourself and finding out what it is that makes you happy, and then communicating with your partner. And, by listening to your partner, really listening, and following through on what the partner asks. Remember, neither of you is a mind-reader so don't make assumptions about the other. Ask. Tell. And keep open communications always. I am excited every time I see my wife, and we've been married over 10 years. I think she is fantastic and love to be with her. I would hope that everyone would be as happy as I in their partners. Good luck to you.
2007-05-17 20:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex & Romanace go hand in hand. Try new things in the bed room.
Also, think back a long time ago about something sweet he did for you and remind him of that, and how nice it felt. Guys like to know that when they did something special, it was not taken for granted. Reminice......memories trigger romance!!!
2007-05-17 20:23:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be very loving... Plan issues, like a picnic or like a romantic night with candles and song andd yeahh.. Jus ask your self them with issues.. even if if there little issues they nonetheless advise lots.. Write him a love letter or a poem. Stuff like that
2017-01-10 05:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spontaneous actions. A note.... a light kiss when it is not expected. Conversation geared for you to LISTEN to your partner and what they have to say. Oh yes and let us not forget for the guys out there....make her dinner!! Taking her out is cool; acts of kindness are better!!
2007-05-17 20:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by Bosspooba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
* by saying the romantic and ' magic' word to your love....
* give a lot of cares for every condition
* give some humor but do not give a bad humor!!!
* be dynamic!!don't be static in your relationship!! so your partner won't be bored with you
* always be patient eventhough you're in a worst problem.don't be angry easily to her/him
2007-05-22 14:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by happymagoon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a simple thing
made a bet every day when u meet him
that if he win,s u will give him 20 kiss
and if u win then he will give u 20 kiss
ok
plz try this
this works a lot
if
2007-05-17 21:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by micky 9212019924 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
* by saying the romantic and ' magic' word to your love....
* give a lot of cares for every condition
* give some humor but do not give a bad humor!!!
* be dynamic!!don't be static in your relationship!! so your partner won't be bored with you
* always be patient eventhough you're in a worst problem.don't be angry easily to her/him
2007-05-17 20:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by renty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LIKE TO PUT NOTE IN MY HUSBAND'S POCKETS THAT SAY,I LOVE YOU,I NEED YOU,OR ANY OTHER HOT THING YOU MIGHT WANT TO SAY.WHEN I KNOW WE'RE GOING TO BE HOME ALONE, I MIGHT BE COOKING HIS DINNER IN A SEXY NIGHTY,THEN I KNOW WHAT DESERT WILL BE. TAKE SHOWERS TOGETHER.ASK QUESTIONS,LOTS OF THEM,ABOUT WHAT HE LIKES OR WOULD LIKE,ABOUT HIS FANTASIES.LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW AND WON'T BE UPSET BY ANT OF HIS ANSWERS,TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT AND LIKE.WHEN YOU CAN DO THIS YOUR RELATIONSHIP WILL NEVER GET BORING
2007-05-17 20:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by beverlyjo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋