Thanks alot for everything, I have told him if he wants the divorce, that I feel he doesn't love me & he won't really show it & wen I tell him that he gets mad cause he tells me, " I show to you alot" just because most of the time he buys me whatever I want, wenever he can (material stuff) he expects me to be & stay happy for whatever he buys me, I tell him I want & I need his attention & him to be sweet to me...But I was wondering if you guys, girls can please tell me were to go for help, it would really help if it's somewere free, were can I get help, someone to talk to? Get professional help, advice, thanks alot anyways to everyone.
2007-05-17 20:08:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They should have a mental health place on base ( post whatever!) that you can go to! Its free and if your husband wont participate he doesnt have to but at least it would be a start for you. Also you can try the Chaplin. Both places keep everything confidental so you will be ok on that part. Keep your chin up and best of luck to you!
2007-05-17 20:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound corny to you, but trust me, once upon a time I was wondering the very same thing: where to go to for help. Try looking in the phone book's yellow pages (or the Internet) for a counselor who specializes in family relationships, domestic violence, or marriage counseling, in your area. You'll likely find some that may see you on a sliding fee scale (that means they will reduce their fees according to how much money you make- the less you make, the less you pay)... you can look in the phone book under "counselors" or mental health. If that fails to help you find a professional you can afford, try calling your Department of Social and Health Services, and talk to a social worker who will definitely have information, phone numbers and places to direct you to. Good luck!
2007-05-17 20:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most large cities have mental health clinics which charge on a sliding scale. I live in Los Angeles and there are several scattered around the city.
Talk with him. Tell him exactly what bothers you. Ask him if he really understands what is bothering you and if he is willing to honor your feelings. If he tells you your feelings are wrong, tell him they are your feelings, not his. It's like you telling him not to like baseball or football or basketball or something. Those are his feelings, these are your feelings. Each of you is entitled to your own feelings, and each of you is entitled to have the other honor your feelings. But if he still resists, then try couples counseling or at least personal counseling. And, finally, if necessary, find another partner.
2007-05-17 20:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check in your phone book for local counseling services. Pick one and call. Usually counties have a general counseling center that goes on a sliding scale. You can also ask if they know of any womens groups or services that are free. Most larger communities have a lot of services available it's just a matter of finding them.
2007-05-17 20:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by Orion 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know it seems like you are a whiner you probably get on his nerves you seem like you could irritate someone with your neediness i would say you are running him away. You need to find something to occupy your time some so you are not depended on his attention all the time that gets very annoying. Can't you find a online friend or something to chat with and stop calling him all the time. You can email me my email is miked452001@yahoo.com
2007-05-17 20:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what was in your last question, however, I don't know what town your in, but there are lots of woman organizations and counselors you can go to. Whe you say professional help do you mean an Attorney?
2007-05-17 21:20:09 · answer #6 · answered by TargetPractice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋