2007-05-17 19:29:19 · 5 answers · asked by Missy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Missy... I'm going thru the same thing. Not sure what to do. Sometimes I tell myself that it's just a fantasy thing and let her go. Other times I'm extremely jealous of the other person. However, I don't think it has gone further than the internet, so I just leave it the way it is and not say anything. I don't think my wife knows that I know, but like you, I have found definite evidence online.
My feeling is that I'll let it go because without accidentally finding this info, our relationship is going well. So I don't suspect any fooling around, just playful fantasy. Until there is an actual affair, I don't really think it's cheating.
Let me know what you decide. It may help me too.
2007-05-18 06:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by howzit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't if its just a email partner i was accused of something not sure what but until you can be more then just email partners you can't say they cheated this is like a virtual world so don't get to involved.
2007-05-17 21:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I disagree Kuji - but up to a point. I think that you should confront him - with a little bit of hard proof to back you up.
Whatever you do - get out of this situation as soon as humanly possible. Don't play his game any longer than you have to. You deserve better than this...
2007-05-17 20:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just delete all his emails and block him. Initially it would feel more satisfying to hack him or something but what you really need is to have him out of your life completely. Revenge just brings you farther into his sick world.
2007-05-17 19:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! Get a life..........hopefully whomever he "cheated" with was not on the computer.
2007-05-17 23:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋