i need advice please!!!!?

Question

i need help im 17 years old i dont know if im pregnant i cant get a pregnancy test because i have no sort of transportation but any who...my last menstrual period was the 29 of april so my period is not due yet but i had unprotected sex and i have been feelinf nausea,headaches,i get cramps as if im gonna get my period but i know its not due yet,i feel very dizzy at times im bloated,constipated but my breasts are not feeling any different im not bleeding i urinate more than often....i dont know.....do you think that it is possible that i can be pregnant?is there a possibility

ok....as you all are saying i would walk to a place but i have my two, lil bother and sister, so it would be hard to do so one can walk and one cannot...and as far as me being immature for posting this...i guess i am if thats wat its called im just kinda scared and needed advice thank you=)

oh no its not my first time having sex sorry i forgot to mention it

Answer 1

If your BF or male friend can come and have sex with you, then he can come over with a pregnancy test! You probably are pregnant and should have been more careful. Now you have other thigns to worry about rather than how to get a pregnancy test. More like...How to raise a baby!

Answer 2

You are finding every excuse not to take on personal responsibility.

You had unprotected sex. If you can not afford nor be able to go to a store to get condoms at least, then you are not prepared to have sex or else suffer the consequences of your actions.

I understand you are scared, but a true scared person would do what they can in their power to find a solution to their problem.

You are finding excuses to not face the solution.

You can walk with your siblings to the store. Better yet, you can have your mother watch her own kids while you go to the store. you can have neighbors or other relatives watch the kids. You are not a built in babysitter.

You can also pick up these tests while you are getting her monthly feminine materials. I imagine you go to the store to buy food, soda's or go shopping for clothes. There is no excuse, especially hitching a ride from a friend, family or even the community bus.

Answer 3

Because you had "unprotected" sex, it's possible that you are pregnant but you won't know until you are able to get a test. By the way, the only reliable birth control is for you to be on bc pills and insist that your partner uses a condom every time.

Condoms are only about 85% effective at birth control and prevention of STD's if they are used correctly. If they are not used correctly much less than that.

Birth control pills are supposed to be 99% effective if taken every day but if you take an antibiotic they can lose all of their effectiveness. There are some other medications that also make bc pills not effective.

The above reasons are why it is best to use bc pills and a condom to prevent pregnancy. I know that it's difficult to be 17 y/o in the present culture. If you can, why not wait until you are married to have sex? If you can't wait, please use both bc pills in addition to a condom so you won't have to worry about this again.

By the way, you are not immature for asking the question. It would have been immature if you had not asked. My best wishes for you.

Answer 4

there is always a possibility of being pregnant even when having protected sex. These signs do not necessarily mean anything though and having sex can mess up your period timing (it can be early or late unless you regularly have sex). The only positive way is to get a test somehow (maybe a drug store in the mall or something) sorry that you are having to deal with all that anxiety, I know how you are feeling and it is not fun.

Answer 5

Do you attend school? If so, go to the school nurse. She may be able to get you a pregnancy test, or help you find a way to get one. Please don't worry so much, just yet. Your symptoms are also period symptoms and stress too. Urinating more than often, bloating and constipation can also be tied to a bladder infection. Every time you have sex, regardless if you use birth control, can lead to pregnancy. No method is 100% except abstinence.

Answer 6

I wouldn't freak out yet. Wait a little while longer to see if it comes. As far as ppl rudely telling you to walk to the store, I'm sure if you were REALLY worried you would if you could. Some ppl don't realize that alot of people don't live close enough to a store. Heck, the closest store to my mother is like 10 miles and that's a gas station.

Anyways, I'd wait a little longer before getting yourself too worked up. The same thing happened to me when I was in high school. I was so freaked out that I was pregnant, I created symptoms. My period was late, I peed alot, I craved foods, allways felt like I was gonna hurl, the whole bit. I told a teacher's aid in my one class that knew the "father" and she even thought I seemed to "glow". I got "symptoms" that were WAY too early. And I wasn't even close to being pregnant. Hope it all works out.

P.S. You don't sound immature. You sound like a normal, scared and concerned girl.

Answer 7

There is definately a possibility but you can never guess you need the test or a dr. But id suggest wait it out until your period is at least a week over due then u can probably guess but if u are always irregular then it might just be ur body playing tricks.

Answer 8

It is very important that you get this checked out soon.
Get a preg. test at a local store, or your health department, or planned parenthood.
If you are old enough to have sex, you are old enough to figure out how to get a ride to purchase a pregnancy test.
Remember this feeling you are having now, and should you be lucky enough to NOT be pregnant .. NEVER HAVE SEX AGAIN!
Not really ... but do use birth control, a condom, pills, etc.
nothing is 100% sure against pregnancy, except your best bet is to NEVER HAVE SEX AGAIN!!!
or at least until you are a little older and more equiped to handle a situation llike this one.
good luck~

Answer 9

There is a possibility but no one can be assessed over the computer. You will most likely have to wait till someone can either buy you a test or till you can get to a clinic.

My advice...if you're not pregnant, please be more careful in the future...having children is no walk in the park and there can be a lot more issues involved then you plan on dealing with.

Answer 10

Be patient and wait to see if you are late. If you haven't gotten in this time next week then I would suggest that you worry then about getting a test. You should know that it is possible to get pregnant any time that you have unprotected sex. You shouldn't put yourself in this kind of situation.