Help me!!!!!!!! I am pregnant. What can I do? I am still a teenager.?
Help me!!!!!!!! I am pregnant. What can I do? I am still a teenager.?
I am pregnant and it is the biggest mistake I have ever done!!!! I have been in denial for a long time. These past few months I thought it's all surreal!!! No, it's reality!!!! It feels like a long time. I've gone through depression. I've regained a ton of weight and I look like crap. I'm great at hiding this secret. The only person who knows is my psychologist. My stomach is beginnning to show. I am not the person I use to be. I use to love music, now I hate it. I hate singing!!! I don't want to become a musician any longer. People at my department, I believe, do know. They could tell. Am I being paranoid? I use to be such a great person, now I bring misery. These people have ruined my life. I have been so irrational this year. I am persian and my family will kill me. How can I tell them? I think I'm going to run away. I have family in L.A.and Chicago. WherMaybe they will be forgiving? My friends don't know how to help me because they don't know my problem. I've started cutting again.
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27 minutes ago
I'm afraid if I tell my parents, they will have a heart attack. I worry about my mother because she is dealing with her cancer. My father will execute me. I don't know who to tell. Please god? Should I start going to the mosque? i will pray hard. I wish I was invisible. I'm trash and a ****. I didn't think about my consequences and now, I got what i deserved.
20 minutes ago
I no longer care if the entire world knows. I've disappointed everyone, especially myself. I am revealed.
18 minutes ago
I had so many goals. I wanted to finish college and get a degree in vocal performance and science. I am a failure.
16 minutes ago
I am iranian. My culture is NOT forgiving!!!!!
6 minutes ago
I don't know any other persian with this problem!!! I feel sooo alone.
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2007-05-17 15:16:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
THIS QUESTION IS NOOOOOOOO JOKE!!!!
2007-05-17 15:40:03 · update #1
consider adoption.
2007-05-17 15:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
honey,calm down.first thing you HAVE to do is tell an adult that you feel you can confide in.i was a teenage mom too,although from a different culture,i am american.i know right now it feels like a very dark cloud over your head,but you need to remember the truth will set you free.you don't have to give up your goals in life,hon.there are so many wonderful couples out there who can't have children,and would love to adopt.if you feel that is something you would consider.but,please,don't blame the baby.you have a new life inside you,innocent,and who will bring much joy.first thing,,tell someone.once out,deal with the issues one by one.above all,take good care of yourself and your baby.any time you need an 'ear',you can always email me,ok?it's going to be alright.~Belle.p.s.hugs your way,hon.
2007-05-17 22:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can tell you are young. Right now all you see are the obstacles yet to be faced. But I promise you this, God has brought this child to us under His plan and for a purpose. His will was for the creation of this child, and it is not for us to question the circumstance. It is not right to ever consider the creation of a child to be a mistake. This is your future now, and if you are willing to stand up and say this child is a gift, and not a curse, the blessings will flow from this event.
2007-05-17 22:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by jbsim75 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No offense, but I don't think going to the mosque would help you at all....
ask your psychologist to get you in touch with a good pregnancy support center.... some of them will actually give you a place to stay until you can get on your feet. They can possibly also help you with school & financial aid applications.
Don't give up on life, just accept that you have come to a crossroads. You now need to make a step toward independence. Your culture unfortunately is not going to be very accepting, but you are in a country that WILL accept & help you.....
HUGS to you
2007-05-17 22:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell you parents. They will eventually forgive you. Then finish school and have the baby, get a good job and take care of the baby.
2007-05-17 22:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by xoxo 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should tell a school counselor or teacher. they can help you find a way to get through this. i'm sorry you have to deal with this.
2007-05-17 22:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by becca 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋