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Well here's the story. I'm a medium.. that means I can sense ghosts and spirits etc.My house is haunted by an energy. "She" mainly goes into my room. A few weeks ago, I lit a white candle to rid of the spirit. The rest of the day and that night I never felt that she was there and I felt comforted for once knowing she wasn't there. Then, the next day, I got really bored so I lit the same candle. I think something went wrong, and "she" came back.

Now here's my question:
If I lit a candle to get rid of a spirit, and if I lit the same one later on, can the spirit I got rid of come back through the candle and return? If yes, then what is a way that I can permenantly remove of "her" and not accidentally bring her back? Sometimes she's nice, and if I tell her to go away at night because I'm trying to sleep, she'll stop bothering me, but she'll still stay there. I'm not imagining these things.
Please only answer if you're not going to make smart remarks or if you're not here to answer.

2007-05-17 11:22:18 · 21 answers · asked by Jadehawk 2 in Society & Culture Mythology & Folklore

Correction:
When I said "Please only answer if..."
I need to re-state that.

Please don't answer if you're going to make smart remarks or if you're not going to answer the question.

2007-05-17 11:24:38 · update #1

I really don't have alot of experience.. I mean.. I'm only a teenager and I've just recently discovered my..erm.. "abilities." I don't know exactly in how I should use them.

I've told her to go away plenty of times. But she doesn't.

And the candle I used already burnt out the second time I lit it and cannot be used anymore.

And I'm not on any kind of drugs or smoking anything lay off, ok?! I'm not kidding it's freaky.. well sometimes. You'd have to be feeling what I feel. I sometimes feel the emotions that "she" feels and let me tell you.. they're kind of freaky.

2007-05-17 11:35:31 · update #2

Yes I can talk to them too

And I can tell you alot about them. Like this girl I have been talking about, she was murdered. But not in my house. I don't know exactly how she got here, but still.

2007-05-17 11:40:19 · update #3

21 answers

I know exactly what you are talking about because I had that same problem except that I had two. It turned out that I had a magick circle my brother opened, he also tried to get rid of them via black magick. THey were very angry with that but eventually calmed down once I moved in.

In answer to your question:
She could have gotten confused, do you just light the candle? No talking to her while you do? ? Well, try this, get a new candle, and while lighting it ask her nicely to leave like it sounds like you have. Afterwords mark the candle and dont burn it again because yes reburning the same candle can bring them back.

2007-05-17 11:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Widget 3 · 4 0

I am clairboyant and I have never experienced that, or read of such a thing happening. Have you tried to cleanse (smudging) your house? Try saying this simple prayer as you move about your house with a white candle, as you know helps banish the negativity. "What is dark be filled with light, remove this spirit from my sight."
Before starting place your hand before you, and start the flow of power out of your hand
and then say the words, letting the envisioned blue-white light from your power hand
fill the room or house or any other place that you might be.
Tell the spirit or ghost to seek the light, and that its physical body has perished and
it's time (and good) to leave this physical realm. Tell negative ghosts that they will see
other spirits (loved ones) who are called to direct and guide them; and will be treated
with love and forgiveness no matter what they've done. Ghosts need to know that
they can be affecting others negatively, and that it is time for them to move on in life
and unto peace and enjoyment.
If this does not work try this:
If the spirit or ghost activity does not stop, or stops only for a while, then resumes, you
may want to do a spiritual cleansing of your home. This is the traditional practice of
"smudging" a home to get rid of an unwanted ghost. However, most believe it will only
temporarily slow the activity down, for the ghost needs to truly move on:

1) Crack a window in each room of your home and take a dried bundle of sage
(available at most metaphysical stores) and "smudge" your home clearing out any
negative or stagnant energies. Smudging is simply lighting the sage bundle, making
sure you have a safe receptacle to catch the ashes in, and walking around your entire
home allowing the smoke to circulate and cleanse the energy and space.

2) Being firm and unemotional, walk around each room of your home, while saying
loudly and firmly, "This sage is cleansing out all negative energies and spirits... all
negative energies and spirits must leave now through the windows and not return." Do
this until you sense the negative energy has gone and the room's energy lightens (to
a positive - look for peace) and then say, "In the name of God , this room is now
cleansed." Know and sense this.

3) Remember not to worry about how you sound if you stumble on your words. The
main thing is your intent, which is your faith. You have power and have nothing to
fear. Your intentions are to rid the home of negative energies and spirits and they will
know this, if they are there. Always work with your own energy from within your soul
and incorporate this energy into the cleansing. Draw your divine power from within
your innermost being.
I hope this helps you in some way.

2007-05-17 19:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lil's Mommy 5 · 1 0

Someone in your family can help you with this if they are willing my dear. If you have this gift, so do they. I will do my best from a distance to assist you, though. Your spirit did not 'go away' because of the candle, nor did she return because of it. There was something else going on and I cannot sense what it was. If you can communicate with her, please remember that spirits cannot and will not harm you. Please ask her what it is she is here for. She has obviously stayed or returned to this plane of existence for some reason known only to her. Once that is achieved, she will choose to move on. She is asking you to take notice and to help. This young lady was about your age and is very aware that you are alive and she is a spirit. She is not being mean to you, she needs help. You are capable of helping. This gift is passed, usually, mother to daughter in a bloodline. Please help her. She needs you to get a message to someone and I sense that it is a legal matter. It may involve money or an inheritance, but whatever it is, the clock appears to be ticking on her time frame. Please just ask her. She will not harm you and is very eager for your help. Please let me know how this works out and know that there are many out there who see spirits. Not all of us consider ourselves "mediums". I certainly do not. I do, however, do what I can to help those who have passed from this plane of existence. Good luck and take heart, you aren't in any danger.

2007-05-17 22:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 1 0

well if you can talk to you maybe you should ask her why she is there. she might have reason for being there and will not leave until it is resolved.
ive never heard of a ghost being trapped in a candle like that but i suppose it is possible. maybe you could try doing the exact same thing again. i always like to use black candles for such things as they absorb negativity but anyway after you feel like she is gone blow out the candle and bury it somewhere. or you could always get you some sage and the good ole reliable salt.

2007-05-17 21:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by Morganna 5 · 0 0

It is not just lighting a candle that will direct a spirit. You said you didn't really want her to leave and it sounds like you may be sending conflicting messages. It sounds like you were inviting her out of curiosity. You need to decide what you want from this gift you have and then research the best ways to use it. Once you find your path you have to stick to it to increase your control of it and not allow yourself to be led every which way

Good luck

2007-05-17 19:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

I think you could use that same candle again to get rid of that spirit. I'm no expert either. I am psychic, like you, only I'm a future-seer. Try cutting the candle up, or do something to destroy it, so it can't be used afterwards.

2007-05-17 22:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel, Mermaid 2 · 0 0

Why don't you try lighting the candle again and if she goes away get rid of the candle or just stop lighting it back,if she doesn't go away maybe she needs your help in some unfinished business she had before she died HELP HER and she'll leave you alone.

2007-05-17 18:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by Veronica 3 · 1 0

You use a candle only once for a purpose and you should burn it right down Re-burning it have taken the purpose a way kind of like leaving the door unlocked

2007-05-18 01:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by freddy 5 · 1 0

White is all colors as black is none. You expelled her with that part of white that was needed, but once used you drew her back with the color of welcome. You are going to have to find the right color to expel her in a single candle.

That can be a real pain. I know one person that used tiny candles of various colors so it wouldn't cost much, but he was lucky.

2007-05-17 21:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by Terry 7 · 0 0

exorcisims can be very damageing and painful to a spirit. usually if they are hanging around it is because they left something unfinished, or are waiting for something that will never return.

i would suggest that you talk to a spiritualist to decide what to do.

if she is not causeing any pain, or trying to cause harm then there is no real reason to try to force her out. she could be there to help you with something. if you can speak with her, then ask her what she wants. or how you can help her. or possibly if she is there to help you.

if she is trying to cause harm, then you need somebody that is experienced in dealing with these types of spirits. to do so yourself would be to invite disaster.

2007-05-17 19:20:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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