were at 6 now. is she moving too fast?
2007-05-17 11:09:59 · 24 answers · asked by jjjesks75 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
by the way im 31 and she is 22
2007-05-17 11:14:04 · update #1
h e l l yes, according to Freud, she is feeling that life is about to escape her. She probably has a fear that she will one day be fat. I would check to see if her mom is a MILF or not then decide.
2007-05-17 11:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mark 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong of her to point out to you that she is looking for marriage from a relationship from the outset- that allows you to decide whether that's a goal that you share with her. If your aims of what you want from a relationship in the long term arn't the same then at that early stage you would be able to move on.
But I think 6 months is not really long enough a time, even if you agreed that you both would like to marry, it just isn't long enough to make a serious committment like that with the sincerity it warrents.
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2007-05-17 11:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by lady_sephie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What adult starts talking about marriage within the first month of dating.....not a one!! You are dealing with an idealistic child. What in the world could the two of you possibly know about each enough to make such a huge decision that quickly? This is what you get when you date someone that young.
2007-05-17 11:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea buddy, she is definately moving too fast. And your old enough to realize that.....take your time. You look at the marrige/divorce stats? you got about a 50/50 chance. that's like going sky diving with a group of people and the instructer tells you only Half of the parachutes will open...would you still jump?
2007-05-17 11:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel she's moving too fast........then she is!! It happens in all relationships, hot and heavy for the first yr or so, then it slows down. As a man you have to keep things in check. I keep my girlfriend at arms length. I haven't' reeled her in close yet. I don't want us to move too fast and have it end fast. Good Luck
2007-05-17 11:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you chemistry, but I think that you both need to chat - if you don't feel cool with the talk of marriage and she is always going on about it - then you need to chat. I got engaged to my husband after being on 1 date and knowing each other for 3 months - but I don't recommend that route to everyone. Always keep your line of communication open - don't "not speak" when uncomfortable - that can cause a huge hole in the relationship if you can't talk.
2007-05-17 11:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by jess b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Way too fast. Sounds like young love to me. Tell her to slow down.
2007-05-17 11:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by Marlo M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! first, there is an age difference. people dont know what they truly want at the age of 22, you are older, she probably feels secure with you.
i would take a step back and evaluate the situation.
2007-05-17 11:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by chantel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is moving pretty fast. Any woman in her right mind knows you don't bring it up that quickly. In fact, any woman in her right mind knows the man should broach the subject of marriage first.
2007-05-17 11:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, how do you feel about it? If your'e uncomfortable then she is moving too fast.
If you know you don't want to marry her, then best to move on. Don't let someone pressure you into getting married.
2007-05-17 11:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by Earl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋