It's easy to say that it's someone else's fault when relationships go wrong. However, I think that it teaches us something. For example, one of my colleagues attacked me (verbally) and was very controlling. I learnt that her criticism hurt me only because I allowed it to happen. Meaning that I am learning not to take anything personally. What about you?
2007-05-17 10:51:02 · 23 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Don't ask to get married-it ruins everything. ♥
2007-05-17 10:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
I discovered plenty from my first failed marriage...#a million--do no longer antagonize an already disillusioned guy by utilising asserting rude issues to him...#2--if a guy treats his mom and animals nicely, he's greater beneficial than in all risk a good guy (my ex hated his mom and murdered my canines and my puppy rabbit)... #3--if a guy lies to you as quickly as, risk is he will make it a habit... #4--disrespect and abuse are plenty plenty worse than even infidelity in a foul relationship ...#5--greater often than not the main important ingredient I discovered is, you could't reason with somebody who isn't drawn to compromise and is no longer a lifelike person. All this helped me hit upon a 2nd husband who i'm very happy with, what #a million wasn't, #2 is and what #a million became, #2 isn't... i found out what i needed from a relationship and the thank you to fulfill somebody a million/2 way...additionally a thank you to be committed to the relationship AND the guy...
2016-11-24 19:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a lot of relationships and learned from each of them. They've all taught me what I want and don't want out of a potential husband. Because of all my failed relationships, I'm now a relationship that is working well because I know what I wanted when I came into it and I didn't just settle like I did in the past.
2007-05-17 10:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by sdj4ever 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have been married and divorced twice before in my years, and I learned that some men want to be waited on and not have to do anything in return...
I also learned that I need to rely on me first before anyone else...
Now in my 3rd marriage I have it down to an art with my current husband sharing the chores and me helping out as well...
It is so much easier if someone helps you with the chores...
2007-05-17 17:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by aspenkdp2003 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I learned that the physical part of your relationship CANNOT be the main component.
If it is, you can wake up several years and one child later, to see through the haze of physical indulgence, that you have made a WRONG choice.
Not funny.
2007-05-17 10:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by Icewomanblockstheshot 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I learned that actions speak louder than words. People will say things and promise things and that's easy to do but following through is another story. How a person acts says alot more about them than their words.
2007-05-17 10:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I learned not to take love for granted. I never saw it coming. Relationship grows with communication, strong basis by God, and honesty.
2007-05-17 11:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I learned that to love is to give of 100% of yourself 100% of the time and to put that person's needs 100% ahead of yours.
2007-05-17 10:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by Chairman LMAO 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHEN ME AND MY BOYFRIEND WENT ON A BREAK IT OPENED MY EYES TO A LOT, NOW WERE BACK TOGETHER AND ITS BETTER THEN EVER, SOMETHINGS JUST HAPPEN FOR A REASON. BUT IF SOMEONE CHEATED ON SOMEONE, THAN IT IS THE CHEATERS FAULT, THATS REALLY IT. I DONT REALLY TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY ANYMORE, I DID, BUT AS I GOT OLDER I REALIZED THAT THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON AND YOU CANT PLEASE EVERYONE. I HAVE LEARNED MANY LIFE LESSONS, BUT I HAVE NO REGRETS FOR ANYTHING THAT HAPPENED(ONLY BECASUE I LEARNED A LESSON)
2007-05-17 10:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by walk with me in hell 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I've learned that I am a selfish person and that I'm not an affectionate person.
2007-05-17 11:02:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dated someone with a completely different religion than me and he and his parents tried to convert me. heck, they even took me to their church and tried to get me to join. it taught me that if you are devoted to your religion, then try to date someone with similar interests in that field. we didn't work out because it was very awkward and there was always this pressure to be perfect for him that i was lieing to myself about how i felt and what i believed in. be true to yourself and always put yourself first in a relationship until you are sure the relationship will be worth trying for.
2007-05-17 10:56:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋