i have three best friends and 2 of them are twins. the twins are the nicest people u will ever meet but the other one is nice too when u are alone with her but when i go somewhere with her she acts like i am invisible and she is always being mean to me. i think she is trying to act cool in front of our friends and she always bosses me around and treats me like a peice of crap. one of the twins boyfriend is the most popular boy an the mean friend just broke up with hers and it is obvious that she likes the twins boyfriend and is trying to take him away from her. we all used to be best friends but now all three of us dont like her because she is mean to us.today one of her friends came over to her house and i asked to play with them and she went and asked her friend and she said she would call me right back and its been a few hours and she hasnt called back.i slept over at the twins house last night and i found out that they didnt like her either and im just looking for revenge on her
2007-05-17 09:31:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I stopped reading your question half way through...
2007-05-17 09:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drama! My teen is the same. Get away from this girl that obviously is not an honest, caring friend. You do not need revenge. It seems cool now, because you are mad, but when time pass it will make you feel like crap. You do not want to go down to her level. You want others to respect you for being an excellent human being. Believe me, nothing goes unseen.
If you follow the golden rule "Do unto others what you want done to you" (something like that) you will always do the right thing. Besides, if she continues like that, she is headed to a lonely life.
2007-05-17 16:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Vida 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Revenge is never a good thing. My advice would be to stop trying to be friends with her and associate with people who have your best interests at heart. People like the person you are talking about always end up being humbled. Go and be you and don't let someone like this girl get you down.
2007-05-17 16:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best revenge is no revenge.
It isn't her fault that you have put up with being treated badly by her - why didn't you walk away when she treated you poorly in front of others? A simple, "I don't have to be treated like this" would have worked as you walked out the door.
I would suggest you quit hanging out with her and tell her honestly that you don't see the point in pursuing the friendship as it doesn't feel like much of one to you.
2007-05-17 16:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by Stefka 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had a friend like that one time, and the worst thing that you can do to them is to ignore them, and not be their friend. If you subtly start rumors, and hate on them with other out side people. You could ruin her social life for ever. It's great!!
-BobbiLynn May
2007-05-17 16:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by BobbiLynn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is never the right answer. I would just ignore her and show her you are the better person. It will help you in the long run. If she keeps acting this way, find another friend because she is a b**ch.
2007-05-17 16:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by Cisco Man 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't seek revenge. Think about it..... What good will it do? Are you just trying to feel better about yourself? Do you really think that by having your revenge it's going to fix something?
Bottom line, if you don't like her, stop hanging out with her. Plain and simple. Don't bring more problem upon yourself just because you don't like someone.
I like Mr. Taco's short and simple answer.
2007-05-17 16:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by JD 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i can tell u from personal experience that stealing her essays and throwing them away and stealing her library books and not giving them back untill there's a large fine are good plans for revenge.
2007-05-17 16:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by Fazima♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is a bad thing, it always seems to come back on you sooner or later. Let it go.
2007-05-17 16:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If neither of you like her, point out what makes her an *** and then drop her on it! Life is too short to spend with people who don't matter.
2007-05-17 16:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
embarrass her back, kiss her on the lips and grab a boob at the same time in front of her friends that will get her attention
2007-05-17 16:35:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋