I have a girlfriend 2.5 months now
I am 40 and she is 32
We have active sexual life
She said first that she is in love with me.
Anyway recently she told me that I should go with the flow
and that her father told her she has to live with someone at least 6 months before she marries her.
Also some guys now propose her at her job and she says that she has a boyfriend (me)
My worry is that I hear some good things and some other things that make me worry if she really loves me and is
sure about herself
She cooks dinner for me often and
She asked me if I let her to take care of me
I said yes
Why women change their minds or say different things sometimes? Are they testing?
Thank you
2007-05-17 09:20:33 · 10 answers · asked by afriki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you are seeing more into this than you should.
At your age, there still isn't anything wrong with getting
to know someone before jumping into marriage.
By the sounds of it, be patient, let your romance grow and
blossom to a strong relationship.
:D
2007-05-17 09:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women r in 2 playing games and ur not reading to much n to ti. Women always expect 4 men to know what they want or to contribute to their mind games. and what's this about her father say's she HAVE to live with the guy or did he say she should try that out. Anyway sounds to me that she can't make up her mind and luvs 2 play games 4 a living. u shouldn't rush her n 2 something but ur GF actions r questionable. and what is she doing that random guys r proposing to her that sounds weird. and if she luvs u she would b with u and b happy u only live once and she isn't getting any younger....... GOOD LUCK
2007-05-17 09:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by Tati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Juggling approximately 10 issues at as quickly as alongside with attempt and cook dinner mutually as sorting out combating young ones, end the dogs from doing some thing that's going to no longer,helping one new child with homework , and carry a telephone verbal replace all on the comparable time . i think of the right notice for that's multi-tasking, and that's been shown that adult males won't be in a position to try this , lol.
2017-01-10 04:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by sak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are creatures of emotions. Emotions rule women every thought and action. so she might be just saying stuff to get a reaction out of you. She probally does love you as much as you love her. Maybe more. She may be playing hard to get some also. I'm a women and my boyfriend don't know whether he is coming or going sometimes. And I like to keep it that way also, so that he will be good to me. Because it seems like as soon as I start to treat him like I like him a lot then he acts bad. So she may be smart enough to have this figured out about you guys. Good for her! Goid Bless you and thank you also.
2007-05-17 09:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by SecretUser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are playing with your head. I'm a girl and I do it with my boyfriend. They don't want guys to think that the girl is in love because that would seem clingy. That usually happens where at first they act liek they are in love and say that. And things change but that doesn't mean her feelings have. So no worries. =]
2007-05-17 09:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't c what your problem is i mean some other guy proposed to her and she said no, she cooks for you and takes care of you. I really don't get it. But like is she trying to talk you into marriage, like droping hinds to u that she wants you to propose to her. If she wants to go with the flow, like hate to say it but like ur 40 and she's 32 not like ur two 19 year olds and got ur first apartments. Like don't warry ur all mature. Jus relax and go with the flow.
By the way we change our minds cause we don't wanna rush into anything (for guys sake) guys dn't want to feel pushed so thats y whe change our minds and when agree with what were saying we also change it cause we feel that ur just saying it to make us ( girls ) feel better and will do it just so you don't have to hear us anymore. We want you to agree with us cause ur want to not cause ur tired of us asking.
2007-05-17 09:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMO the biggest problem is the fact she still allows her father to dictate terms of her life at 32.
2007-05-17 09:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by Ian S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women test all the time.
2007-05-17 09:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just chatter she is not serious but wants to henpeck you. When she moves on ask her for one for old times sake.
2007-05-17 09:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We say different things because we feel different things.
2007-05-17 09:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋