This is for men???

Question

Please tell me what a husband looks for in a wife and mother to his children? Please only answer seriously

I have a myspace

Answer 1

Well, I looked for honesty, passion, sense of humor, intimacy, and her past. Not to mention my wife made my heart skip beats when I met her and dated her. I just knew, but I explored all of those other things before I looked for a mate.
My wife accepts me for who I am, and doesn't judge me unless she gets facts, not fiction.
The only reason I looked in her past is to see how she overcame diversity, or if she came from a large loving family, etc. Not to see what if if she did bad things, but how she handled them.
We are actually mirror opposites, but we have been together now for 23 years, and she never ceases to amaze me.

Good luck, and keep an open mind!

Answer 2

Before he marries or after? Before he is usually looking for attributes in his wife of love, loyalty, humour, gentleness, good loving. You may find the next bit politically incorrect.

After children come to the home then he would expect her to look after them and care for them. I am unusually blessed that my wife only wants to be a housewife and mother. She loves the kids and cooks like a 5* Michelin chef. She washes irons and cooks without compaint. She works out at the gym, and is a size 10. I guess what I have most men would not be too unhappy with. We are totally different people, she really doesn't like to be around people much as she sees relationships cause problems. I know hundreds of people and am always visiting someplace.
We dont like the same tv programs (I dont watch it) and I dont like her musical taste.

So there is also the need for compatible but not necessarily similar character which provides the ability to live together without being totally on the same wavelength. In return I should say she can have pretty well whatever she wants but her wants list is short. Having the same desire for the future of the children is important - education etc. that is number one as she left school at 15 and is desperate her kids do better. Also a sense of humor is really important. We argue alright like everyone but we never go to bed angry. So to sum up - even if the lady isn't good at these things - love the kids - look after them - be there when I come home - laugh together - be real but not hold a grudge - do the chores -
but the main thing is shared love and the ability to disagee and not get stressed out about it. That ok?

Answer 3

I think your avatar and name say it all.

Open up and post a profile so we have some clue who you are.

I didn't go about it like that. I found someone and dated 8 years on and off. Then we got married and were married 7 years before deciding jointly to have children. We established a life together with our own memories before we subjugated ourselves to raising kids. It pays off when just a wink or nod can convey so much meaning because you have begun to think alike after so much shared experience. A brief mention of a time "so long ago" can get us by when stressed out about the mundane or difficult times.

Nope didn't hunt for a "wife and mother" just found a friend and lover.


Old Guy

Answer 4

Cutemom. Well that is the first thing ! Personaly I like old fashioned women, stay at the house and make it a home ! Cook, clean, sew. As the man, I would be the breadwinner,help cook, clean, mow ! After the kids were in bed, sometimes we would turn the music on low and cheek to cheek dance ! My eternal bride !

Answer 5

Someone who loves him for who he is. Some one who doesn't make him feel like he needs another mother. Someone who is passionate about her beliefs, and doesn't just lay down her own thoughts and ideas. Someone who mothers her children and yet allows them to develope into their own individual personalities. What you ask is a great question, and hard to answer. These are just a couple of thoughts. You also need to ask what men feel is important to them as a husband.

Answer 6

We look for someone who is nurturing and caring, a person who is loyal and stalwart. We also look for someone who is pretty, though those of us who know better look for the beauty within. We look for a best friend and a lover. And all of that stuff is SO very hard to find!

Answer 7

Just a good women, someone who can take care of him as well. Good mother, keep things clean, and dont gripe to him all the time.

Answer 8

someone who is going to love him for who he is and then try to push or encourage him to bee what he strives to be or to be better. Someone who will stand by him in times of disstress and be his comforter. Someone who knows him and knows when the worlds beating him down will speak words of nurture and encouragement. someone that will give their life to care and love his children. Someone that will be willing to be pleased by a loving husband as well as please that same husband. Someone who's honest and not going to bullsh#$ me when I need honesty.

Answer 9

For me its a nice person,sure looks and body are good,but a nice person will complete you.A nice person does all the little things that you want or like without asking them.Why is this,because they are a nice person!!!

Answer 10

I look for friendship, open communication, closeness, and kindness. I'd also like to find somebody who can be honest with me in all regard nad somebody who will also be sexually compatable with my desires.