then you and your "married" wife should be doing great then he he
2007-05-17 09:24:37
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answered by Anonymous
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You both feel trapped by your marriages, your not feeling MARRIED anymore, you're feeling OBLIGATED. I can tell you that the pain and suffering it causes in the end far outweighs the momentary excitement that an affair offers.
If you are married & have are considering an affair, try to take another look at your wife. Try to see in her now what you saw the day you asked her to marry you. What you saw that day is still in there somewhere, it is just buried by life's burdens & dashed dreams.
An affair is exciting in the beginning. Sex with a new partner is always exciting. The emotional cost you will pay later will not be worth it. You will hurt your family & the other person's family & for what? Some momentary pleasure?
If you don't love your wife , get out of the marriage.
2007-05-17 16:26:04
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answered by WhyNotMe 6
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You should not even be looking at other women.
You are committing adultry and that is a felony in some states and should be in all states
You are a liar, a thief for stealing another persons wife and a cheat. You can never be trusted.
Behave yourself and grow up or get a divorce and be single and leave the married woman alone. One of these days a mad husband will put and end to your foolishness .
2007-05-17 16:40:21
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answered by springer 3
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Obviously you have commitment issues. You like women that you can never have a truly meaningful, long and committed relationship with. You need to really back off the married women and spend some time with your own married woman. Take baby steps! start dating your own wife for a while. And do it without cheating on her. You sound like the type who sabotages your own life. If you are happy you will do something to ruin it and then sit back and go "I really tried I have no idea what happened"
Face your fears and try being in a real adult relationship for once!
2007-05-17 16:24:12
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answered by Anonymous
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Well, if the women you like are not your spouse you got a serious problem. I would see a therapist before someone's husband bashes your head in. Messing with a married woman is like hanging out that old "KICK ME" sign.
2007-05-17 16:17:46
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answered by Anonymous
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if you mean to have a affair with, Married people are safe, they always have to go home,,
if you mean you have fantasies about them, it just means your own marriage isnt doing it all for you, and fantasy is quite normal in most marriages,, it doesnt mean the person is acting out to go have a affair, just imagining being with someone else, it shows that boredom has set in though,
2007-05-17 18:32:49
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answered by rich2481 7
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Maybe boredom, and also the safety aspect of the married woman not falling 4 you. But either way u will be found out.Not worth it.
2007-05-17 16:15:42
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answered by Anonymous
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i think maybe because you like what they have, that maturatie, the way the have that look. also becuse you are married and are more interested in that class then the fresh new freak that's only here for a little while
2007-05-17 16:26:01
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answered by lilyflower01230 2
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Because they keep secrets very very well... And you get a lot of wam-bam thank you mam sex from them in the garage parking lot because they have to get home to their husband and kids.
2007-05-17 16:17:41
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answered by bluemist 4
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First of all, gross, and you like them because there is not going to be any commitment there, it is safer, and you both have something to loose so maybe you feel safer. You should really have more respect for your marriage.
2007-05-17 16:17:56
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answered by juggalizzle 3
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SO you don't have to worry about them telling your wife you are cheating as they won't want their husbands to know they are cheating.
Try being honest with yourself about why you do things - it's not the hard - we all are selfish and self-centered just don't like to admit it. That sounds like you.
2007-05-17 16:13:25
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answered by Stefka 5
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