My 15 yr old son is gay,now what?

Answer 1

This is just terrible. I hope he is not your only son. It must be very hard to think of the life that lies ahead for a person you love so much.

He must be taught that sometimes people have perverse sexual impulses and that they must not act on them.

Tell him that there are other people like him except they might be attracted to underage people or animals. As difficult as it is, all of these people including himself must control their urges for the common good. He must also understand the enormous amount of personal risk involved with that hideous lifestyle.

I have heard of change ministries but I do not know if they really work. I would definitely start working on something for the little deviant before it goes too far. Good luck.

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My 15 yr old son is gay,now what?

Answer 3

you don't have anything to do now besides love him the same. he will always be your son no matter what decisions he makes in life. if you don't agree with what he is doing you don't have a choice because by the time he turned15 he is able to start making his own choices for his life. you always have to remember you might not love everything he does or his ways but you still have to love him as a person. eventually he will come around and decide officially is this what he wants to do.

Answer 4

there's really nothing you can do besides hope that since he is so young that he will grow out of it. I would just accept him how he is because trying to not allow it will just make him be secretive and go behind ur back. When I was around 15 I went through the same kind of thing but I'm a girl so I think its a little different and now I'm married to a man and don't know what I was thinking, so I would just wait, thats what my parents did

Answer 5

I know I'm going to get all sorts of bad reviews for this comment, but...

I believe that being gay is a choice -- especially at 15 years old. I also believe that there are certain people who honestly do feel attracted to members of the same sex in that way, but I believe that you can tell yourself that it's not an option and fight it away. At 15, he's probably just rebelling and wanting to be independent and stand out....

Let the bad ratings roll... :)

Answer 6

Does that make you love him any less? Hope not. He's your son, love him as such. He is young and I am sure will go through many more stages in life.

Answer 7

Support him. Love him.

He's still your son. So what if he's gay? It's not like he can take a pill to stop being gay. He's born gay, weather you like it or not.

Answer 8

Learn to accept it and love your son like any good mother would. Straight Camps don't work and are a waste of time.

Answer 9

Go to counseling and try to be there for him. Love him no matter what, he's your son.

Answer 10

lol hmm well the only way is to accept it or disown your son which i dont think you will...buy him some lipstick and he'll love you forever

Answer 11

i think you should let him know that you love you regardless of his sexual preferences, especially now that he will have to deal with the kids at school, media, and other negative things that comes with being gay even in 2007. i think you should try to be understanding and supportive and if you can't do that on your own maybe try professional help. i know it must have been hard for him to tell you and hard for you to hear, i could only imagine. i wish you the best.