I found out frm his sis in Dec that they kissed. Thats all she knew. Well in Dec the girl he kissed told me they had sex. I confronted him bout it. Of course he said no. So 2mnths later he finally confesses. Im extremely hurt cus Im pregnant with our 2nd baby. So he tells me its over between them. Well he goes up to her house to "talk" in Feb. Nxt thing u know she calls me and tells me they had sex. He siad they just talked. Like always he denied it. So now here in May I talked to the girl and she said they did do it in Feb. I confronted him bout it and he said he didnt remeber the last time. Yea rite. So he finally admits to it. Should I leave him even though he wants to change and work it out??? U gotta realize that back then I tried and he didnt give a damn. So plz, advice would be great.
2007-05-17 08:02:09 · 15 answers · asked by babygurl_02_03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How can you even ask that question.. He betrayed you in the worst possible time.. you are carrying his child and he sticks it to another girl.. that is awful.. You will never be able to trust him again. Your self esteem will now suffer because he couldnt keep it in his pants. I say bye bye and you will find someone who honestly loves you and your children. he is not good for you. You need to find someone who will respect you and honey he doesnt.. Someone who truly loves you would never hurt you that way.. and to stand there and lie to your face about something so hurtful he is not a man he is a coward.. I wish you lots of luck getting over him because of course you still are in love with him. Why do we always allow men to treat us like crap. Because we allow it.. I really wish you can stand on your own 2 feet not need him and show him the door.
2007-05-17 08:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by neicygreeneyes2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok girl look here i am sorry to hear about your situation, but like all the people that put comments for you say that you need to dump him look girl kick is ungrateful, cheating, lying, *** to the curb, look i can understand how you feel about the baby and this i am a guy that has seen more in my 16 years of life than some people can fathom i have seen murder, friends end up in drugs, friends end up pregnant, one of my best friends got pregnant and i didn't know what to think the boy yes was acting the same way as your man, but she realized that this was on her and not him he doesn't have to go through what you do he doesn't understand and if he can't be damn well supportive of you then hell he needs to leave, i can understand that you might feel like you "love" him but that word is so damn over used today and i promise you the only reason you feel that way and take it from me is because you are holding his baby, and yes men do act like that but a good man and person would grow a pair and realize what he has to do and the fact that he got the girl that he was cheating with pregnant honey you get the hell out of that life and start the one that you know you should i promise at the end of the day you will feel much better. Hope i helped email me if you need to talk more
2016-05-21 22:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well once a cheater always a cheater that is just how i feel...it may be hard to leave having his 2 nd child but think if he keeps it up behind your back it is like he is cheating on the whole family(u and ur kids.)If you are ablr to make it on your own i would leave him or have him leave.Have him support your children and be a strong independant women..no women deserves to be cheated on...it isnt right,isnt fair nor is it safe.I know you deserve better so go find better.Good luck
2007-05-17 08:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by Brianna M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off he denied doing this in the first place so he has no problem lying to you. It seems like he just doesn't care about you anymore maybe you need to show him he needs to grow up and the only way that is going to happen is by you leaving him and him having to pay child support.
2007-05-17 08:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would leave him.. like u said he didnt give a damn then so why would he now.... If he loved you as much as u thought he did he wouldnt have cheated or lied about it in the 1st place... So me personally would leave him and find someone who does care enough about me to only wanna be with me..
2007-05-17 08:07:56 · answer #5 · answered by Batnilla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you know the answer to that question!!! Know this, take care of your children and leave that cheating man alone. Don't upset yourself with that. Stay healthy and happy. If he is cheating on you, you cant be happy so, cut your loses.
2007-05-17 08:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who cheats on you is never worth staying with. They will most likely just continue to do it. And that is not a good environment to bring a child up in.
2007-05-17 08:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gives you no reason to trust him, so get rid of him, but make sure he supports his children.
I hope you didn't have sex with him after he slept with her. You don't know what kind of STD's she may have given him to bring home to you.
Focus on you and your children. The right man will come along and you'll be his one and only.
2007-05-17 08:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u living with him??? If u are leave for a little while...go live with your parents or one of your friends...make him realize how much he really does want you in his life and how he can't live without you....if u really are concerned talk to him about it...let him know that you aren't going to wait around forever and if you find out about it again its over between u guys...hope everything worked out!
2007-05-17 08:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by sirkygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave his *** because first of all he lied and secondly he is wrong and trifling and this probably has been going on for longer than you expected and once a cheater always a cheater unless he can show you that he can change.
2007-05-17 08:08:06 · answer #10 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋