Give me your opinion please.....?
a friend of mine(opposite sex) has been flirting with me and checking me out at the bar. Even wanted to dance. He tells me how he has no social life, only works his 2 jobs, eats, sleeps. 3 days later he joins a bootycall website. I invite him out to the bat this friday(asked on monday) and he said he already had other plans(a date) then last night he sends me an IM asking if I called his cell. When I said no, he then typed...hmmm....like he didn't beleive me. Why didn't he just call the # back? When I told him I no longer even had his cell # he gave it to me in IM. Do you think he's a player? Why start this drama? Opinions please.
2007-05-17 07:18:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I don't think the 'hmmm' meant he didn't believe you, I think it mean 'well if you didn't then who did' I Mean, he did tell you he had no social life.I think he wants to make you think that he does have a social life even though he told you he didn't. Either that or he's playing hard to get. I don't think he's a player.
2007-05-17 07:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by AnythingCanHappen! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he is trying to get your attention. He maybe a player but i cant say with the lack of more info. Him joining the website is more like a trast to see if you have any feelings for him. because of course he thinks that if you like him you would stand against it, if you arent into him then u wont react. now the IM thing was like a test to see how u would react or he was just making an excuse to contact you. as Childish as it may seem im prolly right. My suggestion would be to let him know how u truely feel about him in whatever way you feel. i.e friends only no more flirting, etc. good luck!
2007-05-17 14:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It almost sounds like hes trying to play hard to get. If i were you i would just back off and look else where. you dont need all the drama and confusion he is bringing into your friendship or future relationship. He sounds like he needs lots of attention. Im sure that you can find someone better without all the games and drama. Guys are like females and vice versa. We all want attention and everyone has their own way of getting it.
2007-05-17 14:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by ByouTfull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes you but doesn't want to insult you or lose you as a friend by asking you to "just f#ck" him.
He is only looking for "booty calls" at this time in his life and he is not ready for a committed relationship.
So he is going slow, but eventually he will wind up asking you to be "friends with benefits" and when he does, you'll have to make a decision to F*ck or not to F*ck, and when you make that decision (yes or no), it might end your friendship you have with him.
Choose wisely and carefully.
Cheers
2007-05-17 14:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by Daft One 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The poor bastard plays games with a phone. This is incredibly adolescent and disrespectful. Find a real man.
2007-05-17 14:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by DAVID C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea, he is a player and just trying to see if he can get you in his little web. You know, the more uninterested you act, the more he is going to want you.
2007-05-17 14:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha Yup that screams player.. Did the bootycall website not give it away for you????
2007-05-17 14:23:52 · answer #7 · answered by jzgermany 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
his either playing with your mind or he is a player at heart. seriously his not worth the time and effort.
2007-05-17 14:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya hhes a player he just wants to get some
2007-05-17 14:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by Ssj Balmung 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he is a player do u like her? just e-mail me
2007-05-17 14:21:40 · answer #10 · answered by Earl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋