Ive been raped by my uncle wut shuld i do?

Question

i was in the basement laying down. I heard him coming down the sairway. I was feeling scared because everyone in the house was asleep. He sat on the bed and stating feeling me. I was shaking i didnt know wut to do. Then he turned me over and the rapped started. Im scared that he might do it to me again. What should i do?

Please dont b rude i want a reasonable answer.

Answer 1

you do not post it here hunni..

tell someone you trust who knows you and your family or is a part of your family.... good luck i am so so so sorry...I know what you are going through =[

Answer 2

The first step is to report it. The pain will continue to grow within you if you don't take steps now to resolve this. If he's done it to you, chances are, he's done it in the past, and will do it again. The next step is to get into therapy. Find a therapist that deals with abuse. Don't sell youself short on the therapist, know what questions to ask before you get there, like "have you dealt with this issue before?", "what is your plan for my recovery?" and so on. Don't ever think of yourself as a victim, always a survivor (this being the most important part). It is a long road to recovery, and I'm sure you can find a good support base for yourself.

Answer 3

You really need to go to a hospital or the Urgent Care center to be examined and treated for any injuries. Also this is not the time to be alone. At the very least, you need emotional support. If there is no one to go to, then call someone you can talk to, no matter how late it is. Also you need to make a report. You should really take someone with you that is close and will help you and be there for you. You need to go soon. The sooner the better. Rarely do rapists attack one person only. If they get away with it they will continue to do it. So please tell someone! Gosh you really need to talk to someone. People who receive counseling tend to recover from their experiences faster and with fewer lasting effects than those who get no help. Recovery from rape doesn't mean that it's as if the rape never happened. It just helps you get it off your cheast. Take care hun. =)

Answer 4

You go to the cops, and if you can prove it by getting a rape kit (which has to be done ASAP) the better.

Take into account some family members might not accept this and will shun you because your uncle is a family member. Some won't believe you. But you stick to your guns or the SOB will do it again. He's probably done it before to someone else.

Just stay strong and don't give up.

And please, for the love of God, get some counseling.

Answer 5

If you have been raped, you need to tell your parents and call the police right away. Do not shower, try not to go to the bathroom, you need to have a rape test done right away. This is very important! If you say nothing, chances are that he will do it again, because by not telling, he will think you in some sick way liked it. It is not your fault, you did not deserve it or want it. If your parents will not believe you, then you call the police right away.

Answer 6

Take it from someone who'd been there. I don't know your age which doesn't make a difference, but go and tell your mom, a teacher, another adult, the police, a pastor, or a priest. Go and tell someone. This is a serious matter and you need to get some help. It makes me absolutely sick when people take advantage of women/girls. Honey, just know that it's not your fault and he is sick and needs some help. I pray that you will tell someone and get this person arrested. I will keep you in my prayers. My heart goes out to you and just know that I am serious and I do care.

Answer 7

Listen to what Suthern did, he made a lot of important points. You don't mention when this happened, so it might to late to tell you not to shower or go to the bathroom. Like everyone else said, you need to tell someone, because chances are this isn't the first time he has raped or molested a girl and it won't be the last time.

Answer 8

You tell everyone in your house what he did. Tell them at dinner. Don't be afraid. He's the one going to jail, and you shouldn't care what the others think of you. Don't worry if they don't believe you. Tell the school nurse and the principal so that they can be notified if the family doesn't take you to the doctor. Then you make sure that mother f*cker never comes near you again. Make as much noise as you can whenever you can about it until someone listens to you and believes you.

Answer 9

If this is what truly happened you need to call the police now! If you are scared, tell a school counselor, or one of your friends parents, but you have to tell! You have a right to be safe in your home!!! Nobody has the right to do that to you ever, you a person, a human being that deserves respect! Please tell someone...so they can help you through this hard time!

Answer 10

I'm so sorry! You are going to have to be brave and tell your family. If they don't do anything then you need to notify the police. I'm sure you are not the first person he has raped and unfortunately, not the last. Don't let him do this too you again. If he tries to do it again - scream and have something handy to hit him with. Let him explain why he has a gash on his forehead.
My heart goes out to you. Please let me know how you are in the future. Good luck.

Answer 11

Take care of yourself and don't wash any clothes or bedding for DNA they will probably need. Tell an adult if you are afraid to go to the police alone. But GET AWAY FROM HIM!!!!! If he did it once to you and you don't let it be known, he'll do it again. And he could be doing it to other children too. So you could be saving yourself and others from the tragedy that you have gone through. Also, you need counseling for yourself to help you through it. PLEASE get help with this. You can't handle it alone...